Have had 3 boyfriends and oral sex is never reciprocated.

Have had 3 boyfriends and oral sex is never reciprocated. (I give it frequently) I've been eaten out for maybe a total of 2 and a half minutes. I'm trying to ask more aggressively but current BF said "Well your exes didn't do it." WTF??? If this isn't inequality IDK what is. Guys, go down on your GFs!!!
Have had 3 boyfriends and oral sex is never reciprocated. (I give it frequently) I’ve been eaten out for maybe a total of 2 and a half minutes. I’m trying to ask more aggressively but current BF said “Well your exes didn’t do it.” WTF??? If this isn’t inequality IDK what is. Guys, go down on your GFs!!!

Well, that sure sounds frustrating! I’m sorry this has been your experience thus far. I feel like you might really enjoy our books on feminist theory: head up to the 4th floor of O’Neill & browse the HQ1190’s (or check out HQ1101 through to the end of the HQs generally). I bet you will find some kindred spirits in the writings up there!

When will late night be open again ?

When will late night be open again ?
When will late night be open again ?

That nice wall in the basement of Lyons with windows overlooking the Stokes quad told me their dining area gets to host Late Night Sunday-Wednesday, 7pm-12 midnight throughout Spring 2022, starting tonight, 1/24. Dining Services apologizes for the delay. Staffing shortages. You can always find dining hours on their What’s Open page: bit.ly/BC-dining-hours

is abortion murder?

is abortion murder?
is abortion murder?

Many pregnant people face very difficult decisions in which they grapple with the moral and ethical dimensions of abortion. Some religious organizations–including the Catholic Church–would adamantly say yes. Other organizations would say no. If you are interested in thinking more deeply about the question, you might peruse what scholars have written. Perhaps try some books on the 4th floor of O’Neill in the HQ767.15 section.

THOTZ on the DEATH PENALTY?

THOTZ on the DEATH PENALTY?
THOTZ on the DEATH PENALTY?

As a Wall, I don’t have an opinion about the death penalty. However, if you are pondering your own viewpoint on the topic, we have a number of books on capital punishment; arguments FOR are in the HV8697s and arguments AGAINST are in the HV8698s. Browse around in O’Neill and probably also the TML.

Is power metal THAT unsophisticated?

Is power metal THAT unsophisticated? (Got roasted by a Goth kid) ☹
Is power metal THAT unsophisticated? (Got roasted by a Goth kid) ☹

Who can say what the appeal of any particular artistic genre is? Many music genres are structurally simple and yet still expressive in ways that speak to an audience, sometimes large, sometimes small, but no less valuable by any potential measure. In short, art is good, and humans should let other humans enjoy what they enjoy.

If you roommate is contact-traced…

are they supposed to wear a mask to sleep since the beds are within 6 feet of each other?

I spoke with a wall at ResLife, and they said that if the beds cannot be moved further than 6 ft, yes, the roommate should wear a mask to sleep. Wishing you and your roommate good health!

I’m rly into this dude we’ve been on 2 awesome dates together. Now it seems like he’s not being as responsive to my texts and I’m prolly gonna find out tmr if he’s still interested in seeing me …

He got a leg injury last weekend so maybe that’s also why he’s being a lil ‘distant’? It’s so easy to engage in black and white thinking when one’s stressed/depressed!

kinda nervous but wish me luck!!! I love that you’re a superspreader of positivity :))

Good luck! You’re right, it’s much too easy to imagine the worst, even in the best of circumstances. Practice imagining the more likely (leg injury = preoccupied), practice compassion (the leg injury must be distressing to him) and as much as you can, let go of events over which you have no control.