
Anything that is as powerful as love has the potential to cause pain, but it shouldn’t be a constant. If you are always in pain, meeting with a wellness coach (bit.ly/BC-wellness-coach) might help you to find healthier ways to have a relationship.
Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library
Unrequited love is one of the hard parts of being a person with a heart and emotions. Moving on and looking towards a brighter future is a good plan. It make take time, but these feelings do fade.
If you make a strong case for it, some people might agree! Here’s a start with some books in our collection: bit.ly/BC-capitalism-racism
After the horrific shooting at the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church in Charleston in 2015, Chad Williams, a history professor at Brandeis, began the historian-crowd-sourced #CharlestonSyllabus, which in just a few days amassed several hundred titles. Here they all are in a WorldCat List: bit.ly/BC-charleston. Some more recent titles worth pursuing: Caste, by Isabel Wilkerson; The Disordered Cosmos, by Chanda Prescod-Weinstein; We Do This Till We Free Us, by Mariame Kaba; Stamped from the Beginning, by Ibram Kendi.
Suggestions from close to far: Boston – really get to know it and spend time walking around this walkable city; Cape Ann – explore the coastal history and walk the beaches and rocky headland; Berkshires – so many museums and historic houses; Quebec City – if getting into (and out of) Canada is doable, its like a little bit of Europe not very many hours away.
Isn’t art just an amazing medium to express all the things? Where would humanity be without art? I am so glad you make art and will continue to make art. If you feel yourself slipping into depression, even after envisioning your artist future, may I gently urge you to chat with Counseling Services? They can help you work through these feelings <3 bit.ly/BC-counseling