I’m a senior waiting for grad school applications to come out…

Dear Wall, I'm a senior waiting for grad school applications to come out. I'm super anxious. I've been working so hard for this, and I know it's gonna be heartbreaking if I cannot get in... don't know what to do now. Gosh, am I good enough?
Dear Wall, I’m a senior waiting for grad school applications to come out. I’m super anxious. I’ve been working so hard for this, and I know it’s gonna be heartbreaking if I cannot get in… don’t know what to do now. Gosh, am I good enough?

It is totally normal to be nervous and I wish you all the best luck. But let me encourage you to keep two things in mind. 1) there are lots of reasons why you might not be a match for a particular program that have nothing to do with you. 2) You are good enough because you are you. As a friend says occasionally: you are not your job, or your credentials. You are good enough because you are a person.

I suck at life. ☹

I suck at life. ☹
<I suck at life. ☹

Oh, my sweet visitor, you do not suck at life. I have met many people, and almost invariably, at some point they fall short of their own expectations. But life is long and (in my observations) it truly does get better, even though it may not seem likely when you are in the depth of self doubt. Please think about speaking to a real human (bit.ly/BC-counseling) who can help you see your worth. ❤️

Favorite nations in Eu4?

Favorite nations in Eu4?
Favorite nations in Eu4?

Right now, the Africa northern regions. Slowly but surely I’m learning more about geographic areas I knew little about.

Poland ofc WINGED HUSSARS 4Ever! For the Commonwealth!
Poland ofc WINGED HUSSARS 4Ever! For the Commonwealth!

When I say “For the Commonwealth!” I mean Massachusetts. So I guess I’m really on team Massachusetts, Eagle regiment.

The first guy I have ever loved in my life is still legally married and in the process for a divorce. What should I do?

The first guy I have ever loved in my life is still legally married and in the process for a divorce. What should I do?
The first guy I have ever loved in my life is still legally married and in the process for a divorce. What should I do?

The heart wants what it wants, so no judgment whatever you decide. If you continue the relationship with him you should be prepared for a rocky and unpredictable ride that could end badly and/or unexpectedly. Take care of yourself.