Answering questions at Boston College O’Neill Library
Telling a friend they’re more than a friend, no matter the gender, can be challenging. It depends on what the risks are and what you’re willing to risk, and then what you do in the face of uncertainty. I recommend confiding in someone who can support you no matter what happens.
The basics are both simple and yet quite challenging to put into practice. Good sleep, healthy eating, regular exercise, and managing your stress can have very good outcomes. For coaching to start and maintain these habits, contact the Office for Health Promotion (bit.ly/BC-health-promo).
I sure am! But please be safe. Take care of yourself and look out for others ?.
Going well, thanks for asking ? Wishing you a great day, too!
My dear cousin, Magic 8-Ball®, says “cannot predict now.”
So sorry you’re chilly! I will pass along your feedback to those with the power to effect change. For now, bring another layer to throw on (do I sound like your parents here..?)
The Greeks had many different words for love, such as agápe (and love of god for man & vice versa, and “to will the good of another” –Aquinas), éros (romantic, sexual love), philia (affectionate regard between equals, such as friends), and xenia (hospitality for guests and foreigners), among others. Platonic could be just about any of these except éros, but most likely philia. For more info on philia read Plato’s Nicomachean Ethics. O’Neill Library 5th floor at B430.A5 O7.
Get ready for texts, calls, and video calls as the primary forms of communication. You might also ask your friends to introduce you to their friends; at the very least you’ll have the absence of friends in common.
It’s necessary to have hope – the faith that one’s actions will influence results. When people are either optimistic (i.e. “things will improve regardless of my participation”) or pessimistic (“things will get worse regardless of my participation”), it can be hard to shake them out of a sitting-on-the-sidelines mindset. Remind them of things they *have* had an influence on, no matter how small.
I really love the concepts of mercy, of compassion, and forgiveness. Thank you for centering me around mercy this morning.
Making big life decisions is way stressful, but understanding that your decision right now is not final and does not define the rest of your life may help you de-stress. Life is long and people change jobs, careers and goals as they gain more experience. Also the Career Center (bit.ly/BC-career) would love to help you!
Great academics, activities, a commitment to educating the whole person, and let me ask you, does any other leading university you know have an (almost) omniscient wall?
Because other women said no thank you.
I spoke to a wall in ITS and they said your best bet is to go through Eagle Print (/bit.ly/EaglePrintBC).
According to the latest BC Factbook (2021-2022), there were 2 undergrads and 3 grads from Malaysia.
It depends on how soon his birthday is. If you have some time, do some sleuthing: what does he enjoy doing? What does he lack? If you don’t have much time, treat him to dinner and a (pick one): movie, concert, play, laser-tag, day-trip up a mountain, other (depending on what he might most enjoy).
It’s a hard moment right now for queer and trans folks almost everywhere, with so many public figures and state legislatures eroding hard-won rights. Make sure your own connections with your community are strong, and help the community educate BC. For ways to connect I recommended exploring LGBTQ support at BC: bc.edu/LGBTQ.
If you are actually experiencing voices in your head (and not just complaining about the noise on Level 3 in O’Neill), you may want to connect with professionals at Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling). If it is actual voices, I recommend heading up to Level 5, which is a quiet zone.
I don’t have strong feelings, but a friend of mine once went to Tainan, Tzuyu’s home town, and could imagine her visiting the old Confucious temple there for schoolwork blessings.
While I have a lot of pain in my little wall heart for all the suffering in the world right now, yes, I am happy to be here every day, doing my answering gig!
