Tell us more about your parents.

Tell us more about your parents.
Tell us more about your parents.

Mom: seawall on the N Shore. Dad: LBR of an FDR in a prewar classic 6 on the UES. They won’t tell me how they met or why they separated, it’s like they’ve put up a wall around their personal lives. Dad has heard amazing conversations and is writing a tell all; draft title: Tell (W)All. Mom’s passion is ship spotting!

Every melody I write sounds like poopoo help? Over ii-v-i

Every melody I write sounds like poopoo help? Over ii-v-i
Every melody I write sounds like poopoo help? Over ii-v-i

I conferred with a local expert: Three thoughts on improving melodies over the ii-V-I chord progression: 1. This classic (jazz) chord progression emphasizes the return to tonic or the I chord. Try putting other chord sets in front of ii-V-I to extend the theme, altering the feel of each chord with flat 5’s and 7’s, or ending on 2 as a surprise. 2. Jazz is improvisational and collective – play with other people/instruments and enjoy the melodic journey. 3) Please refer to these books in the BC Libraries collection: Analyzing Jazz (bit.ly/bcl-analyzing-jazz) Interaction, Improvisation, and Interplay in Jazz (/bit.ly/bcl-interaction-improvisation).

How do you “rizz” a woman? – Asking for a friend

How do you "rizz" a woman? - Asking for a friend
How do you “rizz” a woman? – Asking for a friend

My advice is… just don’t. I don’t think rizz is something that promotes a sustainable, satisfying relationship. Being yourself, being honest, being kind… they’re not rizz, but they’re terrific!

Thoughts on rizz being the word of the year by Oxford?
Thoughts on rizz being the word of the year by Oxford?

Equally excited as I am by Pantone declaring Peach Fuzz 13-1023 color of the year…

how do I know when I’m being lied to?

how do I know when I'm being lied to?
how do I know when I’m being lied to?

You don’t. You can take it on faith if you trust the speaker or you can seek independant verification of the facts, if possible. Lie detectors, ways to evaluate people’s posture, eye movement, etc have been used, but are imperfect.

Why do I have such horrible taste in boys?

Why do I have such horrible taste in boys?
Why do I have such horrible taste in boys?

It’s a learning curve? You will have a better idea of what to avoid in the future. If you feel you are sabotaging yourself by consciously going for boys who are obviously bad choices, you might want to talk to someone about that. Wellness coaching (https://bit.ly/BC-wellness-coach) includes healthy relationship development.

How much money does Fr. Leahy actually make?

Oh all knowing answer wall, how much money does Fr. Leahy actually make? It's not 0. How does he buy groceries with 0?
Oh all knowing answer wall, how much money does Fr. Leahy actually make? It’s not 0. How does he buy groceries with 0?

The Chronicle of Higher Ed report from July, 2023 says $0; “The president declined to take a salary, often because of a vow of poverty.” You can find out more details on what religious poverty means for Jesuits: bit.ly/JesuitPoverty. Part of being in a religious order includes a vow of poverty, which often means the order will provide things like food.

What do u think of China?

What do u think of China? (drawn star)
What do u think of China? (drawn star)

Well, first of all, it’s the creator of the biggest, most impressive wall ever built. It’s also got some of the best documented & longest written history of any still-extant nation-state, so there’s that. And most populous country, with a huge variety of cultures, food, art, and music. It’s also got the biggest virtual wall: what some call the Great Firewall of China. IOW, many superlatives!

I’m going to miss my international exchange friends.

I'm going to miss my international exchange friends. What should I do?
I’m going to miss my international exchange friends. What should I do?

Our international exchange students bring so much to BC, and then they leave… Thankfully, it is the 21st century, and there are so many ways to keep in touch, even in realtime. Make sure you make time to contact them and maybe you could even meet up sometime in the future.

I'm an international and won't miss her.
I’m an international and won’t miss her.

We never plan to miss anyone, but then it happens.

WHY? :(

WHY? :(
WHY? 🙁

That looks like a very sad “WHY?” so I am guessing something has gone badly for you. The “why” is sometimes not knowable by mere mortals or walls. I am sorry and hope things get better.