Why does life seem to be out of my control?

Why does life seem to be out of my control?
Why does life seem to be out of my control?

It can be disorienting to feel out of control. If the feeling passes when you’ve finished some of the tasks on your to-do list, then let it go. If it persists, there are potentially two pieces to this: planning, and your feeling of being overwhelmed. First, try setting priorities and planning your time more carefully. (I recommend the academic coach at the CFLC: bit.ly/BC-connors.) If that takes care of it, great! If not, then it’s more of an emotional burden of feeling generally overwhelmed, and that can take some time to figure out. I recommend counseling: bit.ly/BC-counseling.

Why is analysis so hard?

Why is analysis so hard?
Why is analysis so hard?

My assistants and I are not paragons of mathematical genius. Analysis looks like it would take some ability to visualize – or at least imagine in some way – very complex combinations of functions, ordered sets, and other such fearsome creatures, and then represent them as variables. It’s a lot to keep track of all at once, a kind of mental juggling. If you can do it, consider yourself ready for a mathematical circus.

How to walk out of a broken relationship?

How to walk out of a broken relationship? I just broke up with my boyfriend. ?
How to walk out of a broken relationship? I just broke up with my boyfriend. ?

That can hurt a lot, even if you’re doing the breaking up. Everybody handles that differently, but general advice is to take extra good care of yourself for a while: good food, good sleep, whatever else makes you feel taken care of. Maybe resist the urge to do a rebound relationship for a bit, unless that’s what you need. Give yourself some time to be sad, or angry, or to feel any other way you do. No really wrong answers here, and none that don’t at least sorta suck. Be well, I’ll be here.

How do I balance work, friends, school, relationships, and fun?

How do I balance work, friends, school, relationships, and fun?
How do I balance work, friends, school, relationships, and fun?

It’s hard for sure, and something everyone struggles with constantly. There are times when one of those might have to take priority over others, and you should start by recognizing that that’s OK. “Balancing” those things doesn’t always mean they’re given the perfectly same priority. Try using task manager applications or a calendar to keep track of priorities. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you can always visit BC Counseling (bit.ly/BC-counseling).

How to get rid of pimples =( =(

How to get rid of pimples =( =(
How to get rid of pimples =( =(

Wash your face! Too many people think just a splash of water in the morning is enough, but most dermatologists recommend a gental daily cleanser like CeraVe or Cetaphil. Gental exfoliation may help too, using a scrub once or twice a week or spot treating with salicylic acid. But before trying anything harsher, definitely check in with a licensed dermatologist. They can help you find a more personalized routine, since as a wall I’ve only got a theoretical knowledge of how skin works.

I debated this with my friends, but we need your help.

I debated this with my friends, but we need your help. Who is the bigger artists: Big Sean or Frank Ocean?
I debated this with my friends, but we need your help. Who is the bigger artists: Big Sean or Frank Ocean?

Album score is Sean 4 (3 platinum, 1 gold) v Frank 3 (3 platinum, one of which won a Grammy). Frank’s got more number ones. So I’d say on that score, Frank by a nose. But it really comes down to which *you* like. Unlike sports, music isn’t really a competition.

Can you fix my lower back?

Can you fix my lower back?
Can you fix my lower back?

I’m sorry, but no. I’m a Wall. You could probably benefit from physical therapy. I recommend seeing a doctor, and finding out all possible options. You have my deep sympathy. You know the first thing proto-humans said when they walked upright, right? Ow, my back!

Stressed, and feeling alone…

Stressed, and feeling alone... who is around like me
Stressed, and feeling alone… who is around like me

I feel lonely sometimes late at night when there’s nobody around, and the stress of holding up this building sometimes gets me down. It’s good to reach out when that happens. If you can’t find someone here, look up some old friends and give them a call. I’m sure they’d love to hear from you.

How do I remove spirits from a home?

How do I remove spirits from a home? The house my family is buying has had 2 people die in it ( wife stabbed and shot, husband killed self in front of kids)
How do I remove spirits from a home? The house my family is buying has had 2 people die in it ( wife stabbed and shot, husband killed self in front of kids)

That is so sad, and I can see how it would be upsetting to live in a setting where such a terrible thing has happened. Methods of removing spirits vary widely between cultures and faiths. I would approach your spiritual advisor and ask what, if anything, is the appropriate action.