How can I stop comparing myself to others at BC?

How can I stop comparing myself to others at BC?
How can I stop comparing myself to others at BC?

It’s not your fault, selective higher education and the way we talk about it as a society has encouraged you to think about yourself that way. You don’t need to. Education is a cooperative activity, and the things that are actually valuable about a school like BC are the connections you make with the other humans here. You are not your GPA or your bank balance or what you wear or who you know. You are worthwhile for you, whatever version of you shows up today. I think you’re great, and I think you’ll be much happier if you can let the comparison thing go.

Remember how hard you worked to get here. You are enough and bring a unique perspective that makes BC better!
Remember how hard you worked to get here. You are enough and bring a unique perspective that makes BC better!

Thanks for sharing your confidence in a fellow student! This is what a community is all about: being supportive, like a wall.

Do you think AI will remove the need for higher ed?

Do you think AI will remove the need for higher ed?
Do you think AI will remove the need for higher ed?

It seems to me that current AI models and higher ed have different goals. No, I don’t think AI can replace the need for humans to work together to try and understand the world and each other better. A quick, surface level answer solves lots of problems, but even AI itself is based on humans working together to understand things more deeply.

How to speedrun friendships and skip the small talk to get closer fast?

How to speedrun friendships and skip the small talk to get closer fast?
How to speedrun friendships and skip the small talk to get closer fast?

Some people like small talk and some people really don’t, so it’s not just you. If you’re not bothered by awkwardness you can try moving directly to more serious topics with everyone, and that will super quickly tell you who’s on your same wavelength, but that’s messy. Otherwise it tends to be a little dance. But here’s a thought from one of my older helpers: some people really just love small talk, but other people are using it to determine if it’s safe or worthwhile to talk to you about something real. If you rush through that stuff you will miss out on a lot of great people.

Any good black pen recommendations? I want ones w/ a thin tip but I can never find them anywhere….at least ones that are not SUPER expensive

Any good black pen recommendations? I want ones w/ a thin tip but I can never find them anywhere....at least ones that are not SUPER expensive
Any good black pen recommendations? I want ones w/ a thin tip but I can never find them anywhere….at least ones that are not SUPER expensive

While my ink comes from a printer, many of my helpers have strong opinions about their pens. Some of their ride or dies include the Muji Gel Ink Ballpoint 0.38 mm Pen for only $1.90 a pop (bit.ly/mujigelpen) nad the Uniball Signo RT1 which is only $2.50 and comes in both .38mm AND .28mm (bit.ly/signort1). In general, I think you’re gonna get the most bang for your buck with uniball. I’d love to know what you end up enjoying!

Where can I find public safety data?

Security seems lax at this school. Where can I find public safety data?
Security seems lax at this school. Where can I find public safety data?

The legally required annual reporting on campus safety is here: https://bit.ly/bc-clery. Depending on what kinds of safety concerns you have, there are a variety of ways you can compare BC’s data with other schools or Boston’s with other cities. Just ask my friends at the reference desk behind you and to your left.

Are Esdeekid fans corny?

Are Esdeekid fans corny?
Are Esdeekid fans corny?

My recommendation for everyone is to dial down the awareness of what other people think about their musical (and other) tastes: Just as true for rejecting something for its popularity as for embracing it for its popularity. Enjoy what you enjoy whether a lot of other people do or not.