Am I stupid?

Am I stupid? (Response:: No, of course! Only smart guys will ask this question.)
Am I stupid? (Response:: No, of course! Only smart guys will ask this question.)

I agree with the comment–that tends not to be a question people ask, unless they’re at least a little self-reflective. Humility, and being able to admit what you don’t know, are important marks of intellectual maturity. No need to beat yourself up about it though.

I’m so glad that you don’t mind the Halloween balloon! It looks great on / by the Answer Wall! <3

I'm so glad that you don't mind the Halloween balloon! It looks great on / by the Answer Wall!
I’m so glad that you don’t mind the Halloween balloon! It looks great on / by the Answer Wall! <3 Unlike another office that wasn’t too happy about the surprise (Some sense of humor, pls?) I’m so sad that ppl didn’t enjoy the surprise, also so sorry the balloons triggered BCPD & DOS…. Can you say sorry to them for me??

I and my assistants enjoyed the balloon. I’m sorry other people didn’t enjoy the gesture. Perhaps others aren’t accustomed to receiving missives the way I am? If someone perceived harm through your actions (even if you didn’t intend it), you would need to be the one to apologize. I can’t really do it on your behalf; that’s just the nature of apology.

I’m having a hard time @ BC right now-with classes, friends, clubs, & social life. Any advice?

I'm having a hard time @ BC right now-with classes, friends, clubs, & social life. Any advice? Also, how does everyone seem so put together? (Response: Do your work right after class, use a calendar, start projects/ studying papers 1 week before Don't feel like you're not allowed to take a break from the BC bubble once and a while
I’m having a hard time @ BC right now-with classes, friends, clubs, & social life. Any advice? Also, how does everyone seem so put together? (Response: Do your work right after class, use a calendar, start projects/ studying papers 1 week before Don’t feel like you’re not allowed to take a break from the BC bubble once and a while

BC culture puts a high value on seeming like you have everything together, all the time. Almost no-one does, and, if you look at what your peers post to me, you’ll see there are a lot of hidden problems. But BC also has a lot of various types of help available to you, and I hope you take advantage: CFLC for peer tutoring (bit.ly/BC-connors), University Counseling to discuss having a hard time with everything (bit.ly/BC-counseling).

Why hasn’t Cardinal O’Malley ever come to campus? Are there ever any opportunities for BC students to hear him?

Why hasn't Cardinal O'Malley ever come to campus? Are there ever any opportunities for BC students to hear him?
Why hasn’t Cardinal O’Malley ever come to campus? Are there ever any opportunities for BC students to hear him?

He comes every year for commencement with the exception of 2013, when he protested BC’s choice of commencement speaker, Enda Kenny, the Taoiseach (Prime Minister) of Ireland, over his views on abortion. He also attends C21 events from time to time. One way to hear him is to go to a weekday noon mass at the Archdiocese pastoral center. Call the pastoral center to see if he’ll be at the mass, or whether there are other opportunities to hear him in the area. bit.ly/cardinal-sean

If God is omnipotent, “Alpha + Omega”, doesn’t that mean that, other’s final destination is already pre-determined? Why then continue trying to live a sacred life?!

If God is omnipotent, "Alpha + Omega", doesn't that mean that, other's final destination is already pre-determined? Why then continue trying to live a sacred life?!
If God is omnipotent, “Alpha + Omega”, doesn’t that mean that, other’s final destination is already pre-determined? Why then continue trying to live a sacred life?!

This is a subject of some debate in theological study. The idea of predestination, specifically that where people go after they die has already been decided by God is an idea they many believers don’t accept. Those who don’t agree with this way of thinking may prefer to give more credence to scripture, and the lessons that can be learned from it. As for the question of living in the event predestination were true, I would say everyone has priorities that more or less motivate their actions. While these priorities may not have much importance in regards to the afterlife, they may be important enough to dedicate time and energy towards while alive.

I’m 1 month sober!

I'm 1 month sober!
I’m 1 month sober!
There are many other students here who are also sober. I am one. If you would like to connect we should. Can email recovery@bc.edu.
There are many other students here who are also sober. I am one. If you would like to connect we should. Can email recovery@bc.edu.

That’s great news! Congratulations. Keep it up with meetings and turning to help others. And thanks to the person posting in response with the BC meetings connection! Anyone reading this who wants a new start: I highly recommend a first step with that email: recovery@bc.edu

What do you do when your friend group got too much DRAMA

What do you do when your friend group got too much Drama.
What do you do when your friend group got too much DRAMA

Groups of friends can be volatile sometimes. If you all have a commitment to sticking together, those can be times of growth. Sadly, they can also be times of rupture. You could let your friends know you want to help people build bridges, but you need a break of, say, a day or a week to regain equilibrium & perspective, then you’ll be ready to come back and help.

What is the uncertainty principle? also, can you help me study for the Wolfman Chem I exam?

What is the uncertainty principle? also, can you help me study for the Wolfman Chem I exam?
What is the uncertainty principle? also, can you help me study for the Wolfman Chem I exam?

The uncertainty principle states that the position of an object cannot be known simultaneously with its momentum. The more precisely one quantity can be determined, the less precisely the other is known. In terms of helping you study, yes we can. I am certain of that (see what I did there?… I am “certain” of that… got it?…) You can contact the Connors Family Center, located at O’Neill’s second floor. They offer tutoring assistance in general and organic Chemistry. bit.ly/BC-connors

Why am I always sooooooo tired?

Why am I always sooooooo tired?
Why am I always sooooooo tired?

I can’t tell by looking at you, but hope you will check in with Health Services (bit.ly/BostonCollegeHealth) to rule out a physical cause, and then with the Office of Health Promotion (http://bit.ly/BCSleepy) to get some serious advice on improving your sleep.