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Why does BC have so many fuckboys?

Why does BC have so many fuckboys?
Why does BC have so many fuckboys?

It is certainly a sterotypical view that college students (of all genders) tend to be more promiscuous than the population as a whole. Obviously, stereotypes aren’t true for every individual and often not true on any level. I don’t know if BC has a larger population of male students that are looking for no-strings-attached relationships than any other large college. It can certainly feel frustrating if you’re looking for something else in a potential partner. Perhaps if you are looking for more depth in your relationships, you can try striking up friendships to assess a potential partner before moving to more romantic relationship. You will find someone – I believe in you.

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Why does Tom Brady kiss his kids like that?

Why does Tom Brady kiss his kids like that?
Why does Tom Brady kiss his kids like that?

It is a bit unusual I’ll admit… But every family has their own kinds of relationships and interactions. Brady kisses his own father on the mouth, so he probably doesn’t think anything weird of it at all. Some would argue that we should be celebrating that a father is so willing to show such intimate affection for his son. But the Wall does recognize that this kind of display is more intimate than many people are used to. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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How much percent of the students who go to UCS gets off-campus referrals?

How much percent of the students who go to UCS gets off-campus referrals? How many of those who gets referral really successfully connect w/ off-campus resource? Or you won't know the data cuz you don't track it, right?
How much percent of the students who go to UCS gets off-campus referrals? How many of those who gets referral really successfully connect w/ off-campus resource? Or you won’t know the data cuz you don’t track it, right?

It sounds like you or someone you know has been having some frustrations with UCS referrals? Sorry about that. I do know they’ve been working hard to keep up with the caseload. I will have my assistants confer with a few other offices & see what they can find out.

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President Trump wants $5 billion for the ‘WALL’. Aren’t you lucky :-) Can I have at least $1 billion from you?

President Trump wants $5 billion for the 'WALL'. Aren't you lucky :-) Can I have at least $1 billion from you?
President Trump wants $5 billion for the ‘WALL’. Aren’t you lucky 🙂 Can I have at least $1 billion from you?

It would be so great if that were what was going on, but I’ll believe it when I see the check. If it comes I might spend a little to spruce up my nook here, but it would mostly go to fund scholarships, particularly for international students. As for your billion? Well, we’ll see.

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What do you think of people who break rules for the sake of being stubborn?

What do you think of people who break rules for the sake of being stubborn?
What do you think of people who break rules for the sake of being stubborn?

I ask myself – are they hurting anyone and/or taking an unfair advantage by breaking the rule? Or are they maybe just trying to lighten things up with a gentle prank – as in the case of your Post-It originally being attached to the wall next to me (she’s a very close friend, but answering questions is not in her job description!) In that case, no harm done, and I’m cool with it.

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What do I do when I want to give up?

What do I do when I want to give up?
What do I do when I want to give up?

It depends on what you want to give up. Activities that interfere with a healthy and productive life can be given up with effort and determination but don’t need much deliberation. Giving up on a course, job or relationship require much more thought and probably input from trusted friends. If you are giving up on yourself, please seek help from supportive people and professionals- they will help you find hopeful options that may not occur to you if you keep your feelings to yourself (UCS is a good starting place if you don’t know where to begin: bit.ly/BC-counseling)

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What are your thoughts on the Matt Kuchar situation regarding how much he should’ve payed his caddie after his win in Hawaii?

What are your thoughts on the Matt Kuchan situation regarding how much he should've payed his caddie after his win in Hawaii?
What are your thoughts on the Matt Kuchar situation regarding how much he should’ve payed his caddie after his win in Hawaii?

Seems to me he made a genuine apology: “I made comments that were out of touch and insensitive, making a bad situation worse,” said Kuchar. “They made it seem like I was marginalising David Ortiz and his financial situation, which was not my intention. I read them again and cringed.” And then paid him another $45K & promised to call him and apologize directly. Nobody can rewind mistakes, but genuine apologies and amends go a long way.

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Too overwhelmed

Too overwhelmed
Too overwhelmed

Don’t go it alone! Please get in touch with Counseling Services (bit.ly/BC-counseling), The Connors Family Learning Center (bit.ly/BC-connors), Campus Ministry (bit.ly/bc-campus-ministry) and/or your advisor, depending on what’s overwhelming you.

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When will the world end and why?

When will the world end and why?
When will the world end and why?

The Wall is with Robert Frost on this. bit.ly/bc-eschatology
Fire and Ice

Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I’ve tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.

–Robert Frost

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Give me Snow day

Give me Snow day
Give me Snow day

Snow days are rare at Boston College, as administration considers this a residential campus. They do seem to have been more open to following city/state recommendations in the past few years though and have cancelled classes accordingly. Just wait for the next big one!

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How are you?

How are you?
How are you?

Things are good, thanks for asking. Still happy the roof is here to keep the snow off, and I think I’m a little less sensitive to temperature changes than mammals are. And it’s busy, which makes me smile a wall smile.

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Why is my mom so freaking awesome?

Why is my mom so freaking awesome?
Why is my mom so freaking awesome?

I bet she works very hard at her awesomeness (though probably some of it is innate.) In any case, lucky, lucky you,. Make sure she knows how you feel about it. I may have mentioned before, my Mom is a sea wall on the North Shore, and she is mega awesome, too – you should see her in a storm surge!