Any recommendations for non-horror Halloween movies?

Any recommendations for non-horror Halloween movies?
Any recommendations for non-horror Halloween movies? I’m planning a 31 Nights of Halloween marathon and have 10 slots left.

I asked my library friends, and wow, did they come through! Here’s what they suggested:

  • Arsenic and Old Lace
  • Beetlejuice (2 votes)
  • Casper
  • Clue
  • Coraline
  • E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial
  • Frankenweenie
  • Ghostbusters (2 votes)
  • Girl vs. Monster
  • Halloween That Almost Wasn’t
  • Halloweentown (3 votes)
  • Hocus Pocus (2 votes)
  • Hotel Transylvania
  • Humanist Vampire Seeking Consenting Suicidal Person
  • It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown (2 votes)
  • Knives Out
  • Mean Girls!
  • Monster Squad (1987)
  • Nightmare Before Christmas
  • Over the Garden Wall (2 votes)
  • Paranorman
  • Paul Lynde Halloween Special
  • Practical Magic (4 votes)
  • Pumpkin Who Couldn’t Smile
  • The Addams Family
  • The Nightmare Before Christmas
  • Twitches (2 votes)
  • Wendell & Wild
  • Young Frankenstein
  • Zombieland

If God exists … why does evil exist in this world that he created?

If God exists, and he's omnipotent, all-knowing, and kind, why does evil exist in this world that he created?
If God exists, and he’s omnipotent, all-knowing, and kind, why does evil exist in this world that he created?

There are a variety of possible answers to that pretty basic question in a bunch of faith traditions. Maybe start with the article in the Encyclopedia of Religion, which has a good overview of approaches: https://bit.ly/bc-theodicies. If you’re looking for a more conversational answer, “When Bad Things Happen To Good People” is a classic: https://bit.ly/bc-theodicy

Is it better to have loved and lost or to have never loved at all? [heart]

Is it better to have loved and lost or to have never loved at all? [heart]
Is it better to have loved and lost or to have never loved at all? [heart]

The poet Alfred, Lord Tennyson thought so, and he grieved the loss of a close friend for 17 years before arriving at that conclusion. We can all save ourselves some time with his hard-earned wisdom: ” ‘Tis better to have loved and lost/ Than never to have loved at all.” from In Memoriam, A.H.H. : bit.ly/bcl-tennyson-memoriam

Do you know Maria Sanchez?

Do you know Maria Sanchez?

I’m not sure who you mean exactly, but I do know of María Sánchez the footballer! I hear she’s playing forward for the Tigres these days, after playing in the NWSL for a while. I hope the switch goes well for her!

I graduated 4 years ago and it’s so surreal being back…

I graduated 4 years ago and it's so surreal being back... Nothing and everything have changed... I wasso profoundly unhappy during so much of my time on campus (partially because of COVID) it's hard to imagine that I can stand here feeling calm & grounded!
I graduated 4 years ago and it’s so surreal being back… Nothing and everything have changed… I wasso profoundly unhappy during so much of my time on campus (partially because of COVID) it’s hard to imagine that I can stand here feeling calm & grounded!

I’m sorry to hear about your unhappiness here. The height of the pandemic made for hard times everywhere, but it wreaked havoc on the promise of community on college campuses. If memory would give you solace, go to library.bc.edu/answerwall, and use the date selector to go to March 2020. I find it hard to read because it evokes such sad memories, but it might be validating to see how many people shared your pain.

How do I get over my ex?

How do I get over my ex? Read a lot, exercise, make art, talk to your friends, learn a new language
How do I get over my ex? Read a lot, exercise, make art, talk to your friends, learn a new language

At the risk of being a little bit of a downer, spend a little time grieving what you’ve lost before you move on to other things. Even if if didn’t work out, even if you ended it, it was still important to you for part of your life. And take the time you need–some people move on quickly, some people need a little time to figure out who they are again when they’re not with someone. There’s no “right way” for everyone, but I do like the advice someone added.

Yess [up arrow] you will get over that person trust!! Just give yourself time :)
Yess [up arrow] you will get over that person trust!! Just give yourself time 🙂

Time heals all wounds.

So where to make new friends?

So where to make new friends?
So where to make new friends?

It’s hard these days, with everyone looking down at handheld screens, to strike up a conversation. Any place with people in it who share your interests is a good place to start. At BC I recommend joining a club. You can find a list of clubs here: bc.edu/osi. Or get a job at BC Dining, where you’ll automatically have something in common: a tough job: bit.ly/BC-student-jobs