How do I become satisfied & happy?

How do I become satisfied & happy?
How do I become satisfied & happy?

It’s different for everyone, but both usually involve a sense of purpose. To find your purpose, perhaps ask yourself Father Himes’ 3 questions: What gives me joy? What am I good at? What would be of service to others? If you have a few minutes, watch Fr. Himes say it himself: bit.ly/himes-3key

Best yoga for free event/program?

Best yoga for free event/program?
Best yoga for free event/program?

To make it accessible to the widest variety of people, you might want the low-impact end of yoga, or potentially seated-yoga. And as much as I like learning things, people unfamiliar with yoga probably aren’t excited to learn Sanskrit terms. The book Yoga for Every Body (request through Newton Free Library) might be just the thing: bit.ly/nfl-yoga-everybody

Best Autumn vibe location?

Best Autumn vibe location?
Best Autumn vibe location?

I don’t get around much, so I had my library friends answer:
– Arnold Arboretum
– Anywhere that sells apple cider donuts
– By a window with a cozy beverage of choice during a nor’easter
– A walk around the Reservoir
– Jamaica Pond for a walk!
– Mount Auburn Cemetery (2 votes)
– Coffee shop! (See best coffee post for recommendations!)

Best coffee spots?

Best coffee spots?
Best coffee spots?

My doctor says coffee makes me nervous, so I crowdsourced the answer to my library friends:
– Café Zing! in Porter Square !
– Tatte!
– Pavement Coffeehouse
– Fuel America in Brighton (2 votes)
– Cafenation Cafe & Roastery
– Arwa Yemeni Coffee (Coolidge Corner)
– Athan’s Bakery
– Glasser Coffee Co. in Brighton! (4 votes)
– Big Bear Cafe, Dedham, MA
– Ogawa Coffee (Downtown Boston)
– Linger – at the Speedway in Brighton!
– Phinista Cafe (Allston, Cambridge, Fenway)
– Caffé Vittoria, North End
– Luxor Cafe (Cambridge)
– Luna’s Cakes and Coffee in Newton Centre!

BC or BU?

Who's better, Boston College or Boston University?
Who’s better, Boston College or Boston University?

Are you really expecting an objective answer? I can be objective about many issues, but not this one. BC, of course.

Why do people in poorer countries experience more happiness and have lower suicide rates? What do you think this says about the cost of “success”?

Why do people in poorer countries experience more happiness and have lower suicide rates? What do you think this says about the cost of "success"?
Why do people in poorer countries experience more happiness and have lower suicide rates? What do you think this says about the cost of “success”?

You might have heard the term “money isn’t everything,” and I think it applies well here. People in poorer countries might have less material and financial goods, but having a loving, supportive family and community makes up for that lack and likely contributes to greater happiness and less feelings of despair. There’s nothing wrong with wanting success, but if the goal of success is to obtain as much wealth as possible over physical health or quality relationships, then we have to ask what it means to be happy and what success is for.

Are you the, Answer Wall, better; or chatGPT?

Are you the, Answer Wall, better; or chatGPT?
Are you the, Answer Wall, better; or chatGPT?

I can understand the confusion. GenAI chatbots and I both offer disembodied answers to questions. But the resemblance ends there: Chatbots turn words into numbers and calculate the probability of word combinations based on massive data files of digitized text. I consult with my librarian friends, and I reflect on their carefully collected and curated books and articles. My supportive foundations are built on an ethic of care for the people and the community I’m a part of.

How do I get thru the day without multiple energy drinks? :(

How do I get thru the day without multiple energy drinks :(
How do I get thru the day without multiple energy drinks 🙁

I’ll give a general answer because energy levels and how your body handles caffeine are very personal. A regular sleep schedule and some honest reflection about whether all the things you’re trying to do actually fit into one day would be helpful as a starting place. Then you’d be in a better place to see if (slowly) tapering off the energy drinks is something you can do without shocking your system. The folks at Student Wellness could probably help with some suggestions too: https://bit.ly/BCStudentWell

Where is the calmest study spot?

Where is the calmest study spot?
Where is the calmest study spot?

If atmosphere is your thing, I recommend Gargan Hall on the second floor of Bapst Library. It’s oak tables and stainglass windows are a nice contrast from the busy feeling the rest of Chestnut Hill campus has. If you find views more relaxing, the fifth floor of O’Neill Library is quiet and has some great views of Newton and a bit of Boston too. A third option, if you’re okay with walking, is The Theology and Ministry Library on Brighton Campus. It’s close to a seminary and has several trees surrounding it so you’ll get the calm of spirituality and nature at the same time.

How does one bridge the gap between academia and the real world–especially within a social justice context?

How does one bridge the gap between academia and the real world–especially within a social justice context?
How does one bridge the gap between academia and the real world–especially within a social justice context?

My first reaction is that academia IS the real world and that anyone saying it isn’t has likely not paid their rent with tips, or not recently enough that they remember it clearly. But I will say that communicating the implications of scholarly research for policymakers and our communities is hard, and it isn’t work that either higher education or the broader economy values for its own sake.