I’m so in love with this guy and it’s like I haven’t got this kind of feeling for 7 yrs. We’ve been chatting online since last year but it was until several weeks ago we finally met in person and went out for a dinner. He was really smart, nice, and good looking and I just couldn’t stop thinking about him. But he haven’t talked to me since then so I couldn’t help but to think it was because I’m not good-lookingenough or my personality is just unattractive. He got so many friends and I’ve no idea how to be part of them or get closer to him. I’ve been pining and crying over him for nights. It’s silly but I’m helpless. [bear drawing?] pat pat.
It’s hard to know someone else’s feelings in the best of circumstances, and when your perceptions are roiled by your own turbulent storms, it’s impossible. Be kind to yourself. You have no idea what’s in that other human’s heart. Maybe he’s afraid, too. If you’re willing to take a risk, you could tell him you really enjoyed dinner, and would like to take him out.
![enough or my personality is just unattractive. He got so many friends and I've no idea how to be part of them or get closer to him. I've been pining and crying over him for nights. It's silly but I'm helpless. [bear drawing?] pat pat.](https://library.bc.edu/answerwall/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/aw121721-4.jpg)