…and we have been chatting for a while now (not as regular as I could imagine, but still enough to be counted as an active contact), and from his messages, I some-how think he may like me too. My question is if I think he is attracted to me too because I want it to be so (and reality can be a whole lot different), or if this can be really going somewhere. And what really makes me have many other questions is, that I am male too and am not sure in what way I am attracted to him, so do you mind telling giving me suggestions so that I can make the barrier between friendship and sexual relationship? (Note: I am not planning on being honest with him about this spectrum of my feelings.)
If you have more questions than answers regarding your attraction to this person, you are right to be cautious about sharing your feelings. I suggest treating this relationship as just a friendship until you are clearer about your feelings (or he clarifies his). The process of building a strong friendship will likely answer many of your questions and will be a great start if the relationship becomes more than just friends.