O’Neill Library

Hi, I’m the Answer Wall! I’ve been perched in the O’Neill Library lobby at Boston College since February 2017, except for a year in 2020 when I went fully online. Ask me a question by posting a post-it on me in O’Neill Library. I’ll answer within a day on weekdays. I snooze on the weekends, because answering questions is hard work!

How do I find the right one? #romantic

How do I find the right one? #romantic
How do I find the right one? #romantic

Love has a great capacity to find you when you’re being yourself and not worrying about it. It also tends to have awkward timing. Be patient, be yourself. There are many possible someones for everyone.

I met mine at church. 1.5 years later, each other's first love.
I met mine at church. 1.5 years later, each other’s first love.

Solid choice.

What is the meaning of life? and how can you have purpose?

What is the meaning of life? and how can you have purpose?
What is the meaning of life? and how can you have purpose?

This question is a pressing one for most people, so it’s a great service to them that you asked. I wish I had an answer. The difficulty is it’s different for everyone. Perhaps rephrase the question: how can I find my purpose and meaning? Father Himes (1947-2022), a beloved professor of theology at BC, said to ask yourself three key questions: What brings me joy? What am I good at? To whom can I be of service? Your meaning and purpose is where those three overlap. Here’s his famous lecture: bit.ly/himes-3key

what are the best bars to go to/activities to do in Boston to meet new people? (not rock climbing sorry) thank you !! :)

what are the best bars to go to/activities to do in Boston to meet new people? (not rock climbing sorry) thank you !! :)
what are the best bars to go to/activities to do in Boston to meet new people? (not rock climbing sorry) thank you !! 🙂

It’s so hard to make recommendations like that in general, but here are a couple of thoughts. 1) This Field Guide to Boston is a pretty great introduction to the area, and it includes neighborhoods, places, and activities to think about. https://www.wbur.org/news/section/field-guide-to-boston 2) One of the things about Boston is that it has loads of people who are college-aged, and they tend to collect. Maybe try hanging out around Trident Books on Newbury Street on a Friday or Saturday and follow the vibe and/or the crowds.

If Boston College had to embody one of the “virtues” that the M&M characters exemplify (red = friendliness, brown = wisdom, etc.), which would it be & why?

If Boston College had to embody one of the "virtues" that the M&M characters exemplify (red = friendliness, brown = wisdom, etc.), which would it be & why?
If Boston College had to embody one of the “virtues” that the M&M characters exemplify (red = friendliness, brown = wisdom, etc.), which would it be & why?

Perhaps I misunderstood the cardinal virtue of M&Ms, which is that humans think they’re a treat. Red & Brown sounds like a good combo to me, though.

What is love?

What is love?
What is love?

There are so many kinds of love! So many words in so many different languages. Here is a short poem about different kinds of love in Arabic by Philip Metres, who recently graced Gasson Hall with a reading:

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because there is a word for love in this tongue

that entwines two people as one

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& there is a word for love in this tongue

that nests in the chambers of the heart

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& a word for love in this tongue that wanders

the earth, for love in this tongue in which you lose

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yourself in this tongue & a word that carries

sorrow within its vowels & a word for love

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that exudes from your pores & a word

for love that shares its name with falling
–Philip Metres, from Shrapnel Maps

How many books are there in the O’Neill library?

how many books are there in the Oneill library?
how many books are there in the Oneill library?

Technically, the answer to your question (as of 9:15 am 10/27/25 😉) is 971,184. Still, please remember that this number excludes many of the resources managed by library staff—eBooks, bound journals, music scores, and material housed in offsite locations. We always have more than you think we do.