{"id":9461,"date":"2019-08-30T09:51:26","date_gmt":"2019-08-30T13:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=9461"},"modified":"2019-08-30T16:05:40","modified_gmt":"2019-08-30T20:05:40","slug":"just-broked-up-with-my-ex-because-i-am-really-tired-of-him-and-there-is-no-love-anymore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/08\/30\/just-broked-up-with-my-ex-because-i-am-really-tired-of-him-and-there-is-no-love-anymore\/","title":{"rendered":"Just broked up with my ex because I am really tired of him and there is no love anymore."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"316\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/aw083019-2.jpg\" alt=\"Just broked up with my ex because I am really tired of him and there is no love anymore. But he cried and said I broke his heart that he will never love again. Now I feel supper guilty but he also did terrible things to me before... Don't know what to do.\" class=\"wp-image-9456\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/aw083019-2.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/aw083019-2-300x296.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/aw083019-2-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><figcaption>Just broked up with my ex because I am really tired of him and there is no love anymore. But he cried and said I broke his heart that he will never love again. Now I feel supper guilty but he also did terrible things to me before&#8230; Don&#8217;t know what to do.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ouch.  Breakups are hard.  Have you heard of Suzy Welch&#8217;s Rule of 10-10-10?  One of my helpers told me about this gem found on oprah.com (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/welch-10-10-10\">bit.ly\/welch-10-10-10<\/a>)  Basically if you&#8217;re in a tough spot about a decision and you feel like you can&#8217;t make everyone happy, think about the consequences in 10-10-10.  How will this decision make you feel in 10 minutes, in 10 months, and in 10 years.  Be well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ouch. Breakups are hard. Have you heard of Suzy Welch&#8217;s Rule of 10-10-10? One of my helpers told me about this gem found on oprah.com (bit.ly\/welch-10-10-10) Basically if you&#8217;re in a tough spot about a decision and you feel like you can&#8217;t make everyone happy, think about the consequences in 10-10-10. How will this decision &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/08\/30\/just-broked-up-with-my-ex-because-i-am-really-tired-of-him-and-there-is-no-love-anymore\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Just broked up with my ex because I am really tired of him and there is no love anymore.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9461","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9461","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9461"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9461\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9471,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9461\/revisions\/9471"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9461"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9461"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9461"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}