{"id":8560,"date":"2019-05-10T10:00:53","date_gmt":"2019-05-10T14:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=8560"},"modified":"2019-05-10T16:39:43","modified_gmt":"2019-05-10T20:39:43","slug":"dear-answer-wall-lately-ive-been-wondering-if-i-might-be-autistic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/05\/10\/dear-answer-wall-lately-ive-been-wondering-if-i-might-be-autistic\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Answer Wall, Lately I&#8217;ve been wondering if I might be autistic"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"376\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw051019-1a.jpg\" alt=\"Dear Answer Wall, Lately I've been wondering if I might be autistic, as I have some of the classic signs: I've often felt out of place in social situations (i.e. I rarely make jokes for fear of being misunderstood, and at parties, I can be found standing awkwardly in the corner); despite usually having an exceptional memory, I often forget people's names; I engage in some repetitive behaviors, like cleaning my nails even when there's nothing stuck under them; and I do tend to ramble about my sometimes-niche interests, even to an uninterested crowd. At the same time, I have a few good friends, am doing exceptionally well in my classes, and have no...\" class=\"wp-image-8557\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw051019-1a.jpg 376w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw051019-1a-176x300.jpg 176w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 376px) 100vw, 376px\" \/><figcaption>Dear Answer Wall, Lately I&#8217;ve been wondering if I might be autistic, as I have some of the classic signs: I&#8217;ve often felt out of place in social situations (i.e. I rarely make jokes for fear of being misunderstood, and at parties, I can be found standing awkwardly in the corner); despite usually having an exceptional memory, I often forget people&#8217;s names; I engage in some repetitive behaviors, like cleaning my nails even when there&#8217;s nothing stuck under them; and I do tend to ramble about my sometimes-niche interests, even to an uninterested crowd. At the same time, I have a few good friends, am doing exceptionally well in my classes, and have no&#8230;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"356\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw051019-1b.jpg\" alt=\"...sensory issues of any kind Part of me is afraid that these wonderings come from a perverse desire to feel special, but that's the same thing I worried about when I was wondering if I was asexual and I am totally ace. I've looked at online tests that are supposed to give you an estimate of whether or not you might be autistic, but I always back out before taking them, becuase I worry that my expectation might bias the results. My questions for you are: Is there a definitive way to find out if I am autistic? Would there even be any point in finding out, given that I'm in my twenties and doing mostly fine? P.S. I am female, if that matters.\" class=\"wp-image-8558\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw051019-1b.jpg 356w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw051019-1b-167x300.jpg 167w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 356px) 100vw, 356px\" \/><figcaption>&#8230;sensory issues of any kind Part of me is afraid that these wonderings come from a perverse desire to feel special, but that&#8217;s the same thing I worried about when I was wondering if I was asexual and I am totally ace. I&#8217;ve looked at online tests that are supposed to give you an estimate of whether or not you might be autistic, but I always back out before taking them, becuase I worry that my expectation might bias the results. My questions for you are: Is there a definitive way to find out if I am autistic? Would there even be any point in finding out, given that I&#8217;m in my twenties and doing mostly fine? P.S. I am female, if that matters.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks for sharing your candid &amp; discerning disclosures. As you know, &#8220;autism&#8221; describes a broad spectrum of conditions (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/nimh-autism\">bit.ly\/nimh-autism<\/a>). You may or may not have a particular set of behaviors that would result in a diagnosis on this spectrum. Whether or not you are diagnosed, setting the process in motion could help you (and a professional) create a treatment plan that could address some of the behaviors you&#8217;d like to change, or it could just give you peace of mind to know for certain. You could begin the process either with Counseling Services (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/bc-counseling\">bit.ly\/bc-counseling<\/a>) or with your own primary care physician, and ask for a referral for testing. (BTW, your skepticism about online tests sounds healthy.) Whatever you do, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll find a way to know yourself better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thanks for sharing your candid &amp; discerning disclosures. As you know, &#8220;autism&#8221; describes a broad spectrum of conditions (bit.ly\/nimh-autism). You may or may not have a particular set of behaviors that would result in a diagnosis on this spectrum. Whether or not you are diagnosed, setting the process in motion could help you (and a &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/05\/10\/dear-answer-wall-lately-ive-been-wondering-if-i-might-be-autistic\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dear Answer Wall, Lately I&#8217;ve been wondering if I might be autistic&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,18],"tags":[96],"class_list":["post-8560","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health-wellness","category-life-career","tag-autism"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8560","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8560"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8560\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8573,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8560\/revisions\/8573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8560"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8560"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8560"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}