{"id":8360,"date":"2019-05-07T09:56:08","date_gmt":"2019-05-07T13:56:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=8360"},"modified":"2019-05-07T09:56:08","modified_gmt":"2019-05-07T13:56:08","slug":"how-do-i-deal-recover-from-the-death-of-a-family-member-who-i-know-i-should-have-done-more-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/05\/07\/how-do-i-deal-recover-from-the-death-of-a-family-member-who-i-know-i-should-have-done-more-for\/","title":{"rendered":"how do I deal\/recover from the death of a family member who I know I should have done more for?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"308\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw050619-6.jpg\" alt=\"how do I deal\/recover from the death of a family member who I know I should have done more for?\" class=\"wp-image-8336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw050619-6.jpg 308w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/aw050619-6-289x300.jpg 289w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 308px) 100vw, 308px\" \/><figcaption>how do I deal\/recover from the death of a family member who I know I should have done more for?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;d suggest forgiving yourself, and recognizing that truly, we could always do more than we have, but that doesn&#8217;t mean we&#8217;re bad or guilty. Grief is enough to handle without that burden. If it&#8217;s eating you up, I&#8217;d talk to someone at Counseling Services (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BC-counseling\">bit.ly\/BC-counseling<\/a>)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;d suggest forgiving yourself, and recognizing that truly, we could always do more than we have, but that doesn&#8217;t mean we&#8217;re bad or guilty. Grief is enough to handle without that burden. If it&#8217;s eating you up, I&#8217;d talk to someone at Counseling Services (bit.ly\/BC-counseling)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8360","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8360","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8360"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8360\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8361,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8360\/revisions\/8361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8360"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8360"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8360"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}