{"id":8191,"date":"2019-04-30T09:33:06","date_gmt":"2019-04-30T13:33:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=8191"},"modified":"2019-04-30T16:26:15","modified_gmt":"2019-04-30T20:26:15","slug":"i-am-30-and-single-all-my-friends-are-married-i-am-sad-gradlife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/04\/30\/i-am-30-and-single-all-my-friends-are-married-i-am-sad-gradlife\/","title":{"rendered":"I am 30 and single. All my friends are married. I am sad :( #Gradlife"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"314\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/aw043019-5.jpg\" alt=\"I am 30 and single. All my friends are married. I am sad :( #Gradlife\" class=\"wp-image-8173\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/aw043019-5.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/aw043019-5-300x294.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><figcaption>I am 30 and single. All my friends are married. I am sad \ud83d\ude41 #Gradlife<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The Wall has many colleagues with (multiple!) graduate degrees; I hear from them that balancing a personal and academic life can be quite challenging. But remember that your relationship status doesn&#8217;t determine your worth\u2014plenty of married folks are sad, too. As difficult as it can be, try to keep a little perspective: grad school is only part of your life, not the whole thing. It&#8217;s okay to prioritize your own happiness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Wall has many colleagues with (multiple!) graduate degrees; I hear from them that balancing a personal and academic life can be quite challenging. But remember that your relationship status doesn&#8217;t determine your worth\u2014plenty of married folks are sad, too. As difficult as it can be, try to keep a little perspective: grad school is &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/04\/30\/i-am-30-and-single-all-my-friends-are-married-i-am-sad-gradlife\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I am 30 and single. All my friends are married. I am sad \ud83d\ude41 #Gradlife&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8191"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8219,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8191\/revisions\/8219"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}