{"id":805,"date":"2018-02-15T11:04:34","date_gmt":"2018-02-15T11:04:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/answerwall.domain.bc.edu\/?p=805"},"modified":"2018-02-15T19:43:41","modified_gmt":"2018-02-15T19:43:41","slug":"what-do-i-do-this-guy-from-out-of-state-really-likes-me-but-i-dont-wanna-get-in-a-relationship-help-but-he-seems-like-a-really-nice-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/02\/15\/what-do-i-do-this-guy-from-out-of-state-really-likes-me-but-i-dont-wanna-get-in-a-relationship-help-but-he-seems-like-a-really-nice-person\/","title":{"rendered":"What do I do? This guy from out of state really likes me but I don&#8217;t wanna get in a relationship! #HELP but he seems like a really nice person?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_788\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-788\" style=\"width: 289px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/AW02152018-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-788\" src=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/AW02152018-1-289x300.jpg\" alt=\"What do I do? This guy from out of state really likes me but I don't wanna get in a relationship! #HELP but he seems like a really nice person?\" width=\"289\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-788\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">What do I do? This guy from out of state really likes me but I don&#8217;t wanna get in a relationship! #HELP but he seems like a really nice person?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I think you&#8217;ve made it clear you don&#8217;t want a relationship (however nice he may be) and that is sufficient. You do not owe anyone a relationship. I would advise being polite but direct. If he &#8211; or the situation &#8211; is giving you aggravation and you need to talk to someone, you could reach out to the Women&#8217;s Center (bit.ly\/BC-WC) or University Counseling services (bit.ly\/BC-counseling).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I think you&#8217;ve made it clear you don&#8217;t want a relationship (however nice he may be) and that is sufficient. You do not owe anyone a relationship. I would advise being polite but direct. If he &#8211; or the situation &#8211; is giving you aggravation and you need to talk to someone, you could reach &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/02\/15\/what-do-i-do-this-guy-from-out-of-state-really-likes-me-but-i-dont-wanna-get-in-a-relationship-help-but-he-seems-like-a-really-nice-person\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;What do I do? This guy from out of state really likes me but I don&#8217;t wanna get in a relationship! #HELP but he seems like a really nice person?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=805"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/805\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":829,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/805\/revisions\/829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}