{"id":7879,"date":"2019-04-15T19:48:32","date_gmt":"2019-04-15T23:48:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=7879"},"modified":"2019-04-16T17:04:03","modified_gmt":"2019-04-16T21:04:03","slug":"should-i-ask-her-out-im-afraid-of-the-friend-zone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/04\/15\/should-i-ask-her-out-im-afraid-of-the-friend-zone\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I ask her out? I&#8217;m afraid of the friend zone!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"310\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/aw041519-6.jpg\" alt=\"Should I ask her out? I'm afraid of the friend zone!\" class=\"wp-image-7868\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/aw041519-6.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/aw041519-6-300x291.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><figcaption>Should I ask her out? I&#8217;m afraid of the friend zone!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\nYou should totally ask her out if you want to. But let&#8217;s reframe the &#8220;friend zone&#8221; concept. If you ask and she says no, you have the option to be friends or not afterward. But don&#8217;t be the kind of &#8220;friend&#8221; who&#8217;s secretly resentful or scheming to make something else happen.\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You should totally ask her out if you want to. But let&#8217;s reframe the &#8220;friend zone&#8221; concept. If you ask and she says no, you have the option to be friends or not afterward. But don&#8217;t be the kind of &#8220;friend&#8221; who&#8217;s secretly resentful or scheming to make something else happen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7879","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7879","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7879"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7879\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7905,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7879\/revisions\/7905"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7879"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7879"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7879"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}