{"id":7374,"date":"2019-03-28T09:27:50","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T13:27:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=7374"},"modified":"2019-03-28T16:28:53","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T20:28:53","slug":"how-do-i-move-on-from-the-sadness-and-anger-of-my-relationship-failing-and-how-do-i-continue-loving-him","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/03\/28\/how-do-i-move-on-from-the-sadness-and-anger-of-my-relationship-failing-and-how-do-i-continue-loving-him\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I move on from the sadness and anger of my relationship failing? And how do I continue loving him?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"284\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/AW032719-5.jpg\" alt=\"How do I move on from the sadness and anger of my relationship failing? And how do I continue loving him?\" class=\"wp-image-7361\"\/><figcaption>How do I move on from the sadness and anger of my relationship failing? And how do I continue loving him?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>There&#8217;s no obligation to keep loving someone with whom you&#8217;ve broken up. It&#8217;s admirable to respect them if they&#8217;ve earned it. Perhaps you need to enact a ritual of some kind: e.g., get a nice container, put the keepsakes worth saving in it, lock it, and put it away. Or if you&#8217;re a more impulsive type, have a little bonfire&#8230; though you may later regret disposing of things in such a permanent way. Whatever you do, it sounds like it&#8217;s time to close a door, as painful as that may be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s no obligation to keep loving someone with whom you&#8217;ve broken up. It&#8217;s admirable to respect them if they&#8217;ve earned it. Perhaps you need to enact a ritual of some kind: e.g., get a nice container, put the keepsakes worth saving in it, lock it, and put it away. Or if you&#8217;re a more impulsive &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/03\/28\/how-do-i-move-on-from-the-sadness-and-anger-of-my-relationship-failing-and-how-do-i-continue-loving-him\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How do I move on from the sadness and anger of my relationship failing? And how do I continue loving him?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7374","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7374","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7374"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7374\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7400,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7374\/revisions\/7400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7374"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7374"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7374"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}