{"id":5919,"date":"2019-01-30T10:14:06","date_gmt":"2019-01-30T15:14:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=5919"},"modified":"2019-01-30T16:57:13","modified_gmt":"2019-01-30T21:57:13","slug":"i-am-annoyed-with-my-two-roommates-bringing-their-boyfriends-into-our-forced-triple","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/01\/30\/i-am-annoyed-with-my-two-roommates-bringing-their-boyfriends-into-our-forced-triple\/","title":{"rendered":"I am annoyed with my two roommates bringing their boyfriends into our forced triple."},"content":{"rendered":"
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I am annoyed with my two roommates bringing their boyfriends into our forced triple. People tell me I’m too sensitive or need to talk it out, but I hate confrontations. I guess I’ll just hang out in O’Neill more.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n

When people share 4 walls, it’s a good idea to check with others about inviting guests, and to make it clear whether it’s an everyone-together event, or a pair-bonding event. It’s reasonable to want to want clarity about how your shared space is being used & whether you’re part of things. It doesn’t need to be a confrontation; just ask politely if they can let you know, so you can plan to be there if you’re to be a part of things or plan to trek to the library if not. Forced triples are awkward & new for everyone; try to let go of your annoyance, but don’t abandon your own needs in the process.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When people share 4 walls, it’s a good idea to check with others about inviting guests, and to make it clear whether it’s an everyone-together event, or a pair-bonding event. It’s reasonable to want to want clarity about how your shared space is being used & whether you’re part of things. It doesn’t need to … <\/p>\n

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