{"id":5831,"date":"2019-01-24T19:47:57","date_gmt":"2019-01-25T00:47:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=5831"},"modified":"2019-01-25T16:48:06","modified_gmt":"2019-01-25T21:48:06","slug":"how-to-get-out-of-a-relationship-that-makes-me-suffer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/01\/24\/how-to-get-out-of-a-relationship-that-makes-me-suffer\/","title":{"rendered":"How to get out of a relationship that makes me suffer?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_5827\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5827\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/aw012419-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5827\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/aw012419-4-300x294.jpg\" alt=\"How to get out of a relationship that makes me suffer?\" width=\"300\" height=\"294\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/aw012419-4-300x294.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/aw012419-4.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5827\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">How to get out of a relationship that makes me suffer?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The Wall can&#8217;t tell how to read the word suffer, so it has a couple of answers. TLDR: Dump them. If you mean &#8220;suffer&#8221; generally: Directly. Quickly. Trying to soften the blow or wait for a good time tends not to work out all that well. You&#8217;re under no obligation to stay somewhere that makes you unhappy. If &#8220;suffer&#8221; means you feel unwell the answer might be the same&#8211;but also consider reaching out to campus Counseling Services (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BC-counseling\">bit.ly\/BC-counseling<\/a>) or Campus Ministry&#8217;s pastoral counseling (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/bc-campus-ministry\">bit.ly\/bc-campus-ministry<\/a>), depending on what sort of advice you&#8217;d like. If you&#8217;re feeling unsafe, call BCPD<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Wall can&#8217;t tell how to read the word suffer, so it has a couple of answers. TLDR: Dump them. If you mean &#8220;suffer&#8221; generally: Directly. Quickly. Trying to soften the blow or wait for a good time tends not to work out all that well. You&#8217;re under no obligation to stay somewhere that makes &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2019\/01\/24\/how-to-get-out-of-a-relationship-that-makes-me-suffer\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How to get out of a relationship that makes me suffer?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5831","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5831","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5831"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5831\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5840,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5831\/revisions\/5840"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5831"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5831"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5831"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}