{"id":5596,"date":"2018-12-18T10:42:08","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T15:42:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=5596"},"modified":"2018-12-18T16:59:15","modified_gmt":"2018-12-18T21:59:15","slug":"i-am-currently-entertaining-a-number-of-boys-and-i-feel-a-bit-guilty-about-it-do-i-have-to-choose-one-or-is-it-ok-to-embrace-my-promiscuity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/12\/18\/i-am-currently-entertaining-a-number-of-boys-and-i-feel-a-bit-guilty-about-it-do-i-have-to-choose-one-or-is-it-ok-to-embrace-my-promiscuity\/","title":{"rendered":"I am currently entertaining a number of boys and I feel a bit guilty about it. Do I have to choose one or is it ok to embrace my promiscuity?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_5585\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5585\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5585\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-4-300x291.jpg\" alt=\"I am currently entertaining a number of boys and I feel a bit guilty about it. Do I have to choose one or is it ok to embrace my promiscuity?\" width=\"300\" height=\"291\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-4-300x291.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-4.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5585\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I am currently entertaining a number of boys and I feel a bit guilty about it. Do I have to choose one or is it ok to embrace my promiscuity?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5586\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5586\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5586\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-5-300x296.jpg\" alt=\"I am sure your body &amp; your soul is beautiful!!\" width=\"300\" height=\"296\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-5-300x296.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-5-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-5.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5586\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I am sure your body &amp; your soul is beautiful!!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5581\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5581\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-8.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5581\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-8-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Yes you are a sexual being\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-8-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-8-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-8-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-8.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5581\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Yes you are a sexual being<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5579\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5579\" style=\"width: 296px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5579 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-6-296x300.jpg\" alt=\"P.S. have you ever been w\/ a female...? --&gt;\" width=\"296\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-6-296x300.jpg 296w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-6-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-6.jpg 316w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 296px) 100vw, 296px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5579\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">P.S. have you ever been w\/ a female&#8230;? &#8211;&gt;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5580\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5580\" style=\"width: 296px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5580\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-7-296x300.jpg\" alt=\"Embrace who you are\" width=\"296\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-7-296x300.jpg 296w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-7-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/aw121818-7.jpg 316w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 296px) 100vw, 296px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5580\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Embrace who you are &lt;3 BB scrimp<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>IF the boys all know &amp; are fine with it, and you evaluate the source of your guilt &amp; decide it&#8217;s not an issue and that the consequences of your activity really have no foreseeable harms to yourself or others, then continue. That&#8217;s a lot of ifs, though. Proceed with caution when the potential benefit is short-term pleasure and potential costs are broken hearts, betrayals, or a failure to value yourself.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>IF the boys all know &amp; are fine with it, and you evaluate the source of your guilt &amp; decide it&#8217;s not an issue and that the consequences of your activity really have no foreseeable harms to yourself or others, then continue. That&#8217;s a lot of ifs, though. Proceed with caution when the potential benefit &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/12\/18\/i-am-currently-entertaining-a-number-of-boys-and-i-feel-a-bit-guilty-about-it-do-i-have-to-choose-one-or-is-it-ok-to-embrace-my-promiscuity\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I am currently entertaining a number of boys and I feel a bit guilty about it. Do I have to choose one or is it ok to embrace my promiscuity?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5596","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5596","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5596"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5596\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5603,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5596\/revisions\/5603"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5596"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5596"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5596"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}