{"id":5573,"date":"2018-12-17T19:03:14","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T00:03:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=5573"},"modified":"2018-12-18T17:01:00","modified_gmt":"2018-12-18T22:01:00","slug":"my-boyfriend-would-rather-go-to-mass-than-spend-time-with-me-what-should-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/12\/17\/my-boyfriend-would-rather-go-to-mass-than-spend-time-with-me-what-should-i-do\/","title":{"rendered":"My boyfriend would rather go to mass than spend time with me :-( What should I do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_5568\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5568\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4203.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5568\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4203-300x279.jpg\" alt=\"My boyfriend would rather go to mass than spend time with me :-( What should I do?\" width=\"300\" height=\"279\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4203-300x279.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4203.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5568\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My boyfriend would rather go to mass than spend time with me \ud83d\ude41 What should I do?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5567\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5567\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4204.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5567\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4204-300x298.jpg\" alt=\"Go with him &amp; pray it out!\" width=\"300\" height=\"298\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4204-300x298.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4204-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4204-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/IMG_4204.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5567\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Go with him &amp; pray it out!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>It might be time for a check-in on the relationship. Talk to him about it, but try to do it in terms of behavior. &#8220;When you do [thing] it makes me feel [feeling]&#8221; That gives a little more emotional space to have a conversation rather than a fight. But if you feel like your boyfriend isn&#8217;t interested in you, that is a conversation to have now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It might be time for a check-in on the relationship. Talk to him about it, but try to do it in terms of behavior. &#8220;When you do [thing] it makes me feel [feeling]&#8221; That gives a little more emotional space to have a conversation rather than a fight. But if you feel like your boyfriend &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/12\/17\/my-boyfriend-would-rather-go-to-mass-than-spend-time-with-me-what-should-i-do\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;My boyfriend would rather go to mass than spend time with me \ud83d\ude41 What should I do?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5573","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5573","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5573"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5573\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5604,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5573\/revisions\/5604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5573"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5573"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5573"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}