{"id":5003,"date":"2018-11-28T16:28:28","date_gmt":"2018-11-28T21:28:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=5003"},"modified":"2018-11-29T16:43:05","modified_gmt":"2018-11-29T21:43:05","slug":"how-to-approach-difficult-topics-with-sos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/11\/28\/how-to-approach-difficult-topics-with-sos\/","title":{"rendered":"How to approach difficult topics with SOs?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_4990\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4990\" style=\"width: 281px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/112818-5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4990\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/112818-5-281x300.jpg\" alt=\"How to approach difficult topics with SOs?\" width=\"281\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/112818-5-281x300.jpg 281w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/112818-5.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 281px) 100vw, 281px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4990\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">How to approach difficult topics with SOs?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Honestly, directly, and as close to when the topic comes up as possible. It won&#8217;t get any better if you don&#8217;t address it. Also, the longer you sit on whatever it is the more important it becomes to you and the more unfair it will feel to your SO when you do finally bring it up. Here&#8217;s a little suggested reading: <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/bc-conflict\">bit.ly\/bc-conflict<\/a>. Good luck!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Honestly, directly, and as close to when the topic comes up as possible. It won&#8217;t get any better if you don&#8217;t address it. Also, the longer you sit on whatever it is the more important it becomes to you and the more unfair it will feel to your SO when you do finally bring it &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/11\/28\/how-to-approach-difficult-topics-with-sos\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How to approach difficult topics with SOs?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5003","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5003","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5003"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5003\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5029,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5003\/revisions\/5029"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5003"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5003"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5003"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}