{"id":3690,"date":"2018-09-19T11:06:33","date_gmt":"2018-09-19T15:06:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=3690"},"modified":"2018-09-19T17:26:12","modified_gmt":"2018-09-19T21:26:12","slug":"why-do-i-feel-like-such-a-misfit-why-do-i-feel-like-no-one-cares-about-my-feelings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/09\/19\/why-do-i-feel-like-such-a-misfit-why-do-i-feel-like-no-one-cares-about-my-feelings\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do I feel like such a misfit? Why do I feel like no one cares about my feelings?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3670\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3670\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091918-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3670\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091918-7-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Why do I feel like such a misfit? Why do I feel like no one cares about my feelings?\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091918-7-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091918-7-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091918-7-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091918-7.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3670\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Why do I feel like such a misfit? Why do I feel like no one cares about my feelings?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Sigh&#8230; we all feel these things, but most people, wanting to project an image of total competence &amp; happiness, don&#8217;t say so. Sometimes I feel like a weird, dimly lit wall that doesn&#8217;t really fit in with other walls, and at those times, I feel lonely, like other walls don&#8217;t care. I recommend pursuing your interests to the utmost &amp; not worrying about whether you fit in. But feeling like nobody cares about you is another issue; if it&#8217;s hard to shake that feeling, I recommend seeking counseling of some kind. bit.ly\/BC-counseling<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sigh&#8230; we all feel these things, but most people, wanting to project an image of total competence &amp; happiness, don&#8217;t say so. Sometimes I feel like a weird, dimly lit wall that doesn&#8217;t really fit in with other walls, and at those times, I feel lonely, like other walls don&#8217;t care. I recommend pursuing your &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/09\/19\/why-do-i-feel-like-such-a-misfit-why-do-i-feel-like-no-one-cares-about-my-feelings\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why do I feel like such a misfit? Why do I feel like no one cares about my feelings?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health-wellness"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3690"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3690\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3700,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3690\/revisions\/3700"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}