{"id":3649,"date":"2018-09-18T09:57:27","date_gmt":"2018-09-18T13:57:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=3649"},"modified":"2018-09-18T17:15:55","modified_gmt":"2018-09-18T21:15:55","slug":"how-do-i-make-a-cross-ethnic-and-cross-ses-relationship-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/09\/18\/how-do-i-make-a-cross-ethnic-and-cross-ses-relationship-work\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I make a cross-ethnic and cross-SES relationship work?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3631\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3631\" style=\"width: 296px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091818-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3631\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091818-1-296x300.jpg\" alt=\"How do I make a cross-ethnic and cross-SES relationship work? Any useful studies out there?\" width=\"296\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091818-1-296x300.jpg 296w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091818-1-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/aw091818-1.jpg 316w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 296px) 100vw, 296px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3631\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">How do I make a cross-ethnic and cross-SES relationship work? Any useful studies out there?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>When two people have different experiences, assumptions, and family life, they likely have to work harder to understand each other. Since you asked about studies, here&#8217;s a literature review of 50 years of research on interracial marriages: <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/50-years-loving\">bit.ly\/50-years-loving<\/a> (BC access only). For a more narrative perspective, try the recent film <em>Loving<\/em> (Law Library feature film collection), about the couple in the landmark Supreme Court case. The advantage of ethnic and SES differences is that you can&#8217;t help but recognize &amp; address them; many couples have differences they never acknowledge until it&#8217;s too late. In that sense, differences are universal, and you just need to focus on honesty, trust, and compassion.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When two people have different experiences, assumptions, and family life, they likely have to work harder to understand each other. Since you asked about studies, here&#8217;s a literature review of 50 years of research on interracial marriages: bit.ly\/50-years-loving (BC access only). For a more narrative perspective, try the recent film Loving (Law Library feature film &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/09\/18\/how-do-i-make-a-cross-ethnic-and-cross-ses-relationship-work\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How do I make a cross-ethnic and cross-SES relationship work?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3649","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3649"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3649\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3662,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3649\/revisions\/3662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}