{"id":3040,"date":"2018-07-13T09:59:06","date_gmt":"2018-07-13T13:59:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/answerwall.domain.bc.edu\/?p=3040"},"modified":"2018-07-13T14:22:11","modified_gmt":"2018-07-13T18:22:11","slug":"why-cant-i-connect-with-anyone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/07\/13\/why-cant-i-connect-with-anyone\/","title":{"rendered":"Why can&#8217;t I connect with anyone?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3038\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3038\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/aw071318-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3038\" src=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/aw071318-1-300x294.jpg\" alt=\"Why can't I connect with anyone?\" width=\"300\" height=\"294\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/aw071318-1-300x294.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/aw071318-1.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3038\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Why can&#8217;t I connect with anyone?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Making friends is very hard &#8211; so many things have to go right. As you grow older, you spend less time with a given group of people, and that makes it even harder to find friends. In high school, there&#8217;s tons of opportunity to make friends since you&#8217;re with (mostly) the same people for hours a day. In college, that&#8217;s less true. All you can do is continue to join clubs and put yourself out there. If you&#8217;re feeling lonely or depressed, you can also reach out to Counseling Services which might be able to give you more personal advice: <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BC-counseling\">bit.ly\/BC-counseling<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Making friends is very hard &#8211; so many things have to go right. As you grow older, you spend less time with a given group of people, and that makes it even harder to find friends. In high school, there&#8217;s tons of opportunity to make friends since you&#8217;re with (mostly) the same people for hours &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/07\/13\/why-cant-i-connect-with-anyone\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why can&#8217;t I connect with anyone?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3040","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3040","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3040"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3040\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3045,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3040\/revisions\/3045"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3040"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3040"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3040"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}