{"id":30210,"date":"2026-10-14T18:33:33","date_gmt":"2026-10-14T22:33:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=30210"},"modified":"2026-10-22T17:47:38","modified_gmt":"2026-10-22T21:47:38","slug":"how-do-i-get-over-my-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2026\/10\/14\/how-do-i-get-over-my-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I get over my ex?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101426-1.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"319\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101426-1.jpeg\" alt=\"How do I get over my ex? Read a lot, exercise, make art, talk to your friends, learn a new language\" class=\"wp-image-30207\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101426-1.jpeg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101426-1-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101426-1-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101426-1-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">How do I get over my ex? Read a lot, exercise, make art, talk to your friends, learn a new language<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At the risk of being a little bit of a downer, spend a little time grieving what you&#8217;ve lost before you move on to other things. Even if if didn&#8217;t work out, even if you ended it, it was still important to you for part of your life. And take the time you need&#8211;some people move on quickly, some people need a little time to figure out who they are again when they&#8217;re not with someone. There&#8217;s no &#8220;right way&#8221; for everyone, but I do like the advice someone added.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101926-1.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"882\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101926-1-1024x882.jpeg\" alt=\"Yess [up arrow] you will get over that person trust!! Just give yourself time :)\" class=\"wp-image-30247\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.161005544490499;width:323px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101926-1-1024x882.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101926-1-300x258.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101926-1-768x662.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101926-1-1536x1323.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/AW101926-1.jpeg 1703w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Yess [up arrow] you will get over that person trust!! Just give yourself time \ud83d\ude42<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Time heals all wounds.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At the risk of being a little bit of a downer, spend a little time grieving what you&#8217;ve lost before you move on to other things. Even if if didn&#8217;t work out, even if you ended it, it was still important to you for part of your life. And take the time you need&#8211;some people &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2026\/10\/14\/how-do-i-get-over-my-ex\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How do I get over my ex?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30210","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30210","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30210"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30210\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30280,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30210\/revisions\/30280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30210"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30210"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}