{"id":30008,"date":"2026-09-10T19:55:29","date_gmt":"2026-09-10T23:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=30008"},"modified":"2026-09-12T14:29:22","modified_gmt":"2026-09-12T18:29:22","slug":"what-do-i-do-if-i-feel-like-my-hs-high-school-friends-have-all-made-their-own-friends-and-i-havent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2026\/09\/10\/what-do-i-do-if-i-feel-like-my-hs-high-school-friends-have-all-made-their-own-friends-and-i-havent\/","title":{"rendered":"What do I do if I feel like my HS [high school] friends have all made their own friends and I haven&#8217;t?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/AW091026.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"316\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/AW091026.jpeg\" alt=\"What do I do if I feel like my HS [high school] friends have all made their own friends and I haven't? It feels like I miss them more than I should, and more than they miss me.\" class=\"wp-image-30007\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/AW091026.jpeg 316w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/AW091026-296x300.jpeg 296w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/AW091026-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 316px) 100vw, 316px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">What do I do if I feel like my HS [high school] friends have all made their own friends and I haven&#8217;t? It feels like I miss them more than I should, and more than they miss me.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some people react to loneliness by throwing themselves into a lot of distractions. It sounds like that&#8217;s not your style. You seem capable of sitting with discomfort and talking about it. Those are both really good skills for making and maintaining long, trusting friendships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some people react to loneliness by throwing themselves into a lot of distractions. It sounds like that&#8217;s not your style. You seem capable of sitting with discomfort and talking about it. Those are both really good skills for making and maintaining long, trusting friendships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30008","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30008","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30008"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30008\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30014,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30008\/revisions\/30014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30008"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30008"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30008"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}