{"id":29565,"date":"2026-04-09T17:29:38","date_gmt":"2026-04-09T21:29:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=29565"},"modified":"2026-04-18T14:02:55","modified_gmt":"2026-04-18T18:02:55","slug":"my-roommate-has-been-pretty-down-ever-since-he-has-gotten-over-his-situationship-how-can-i-make-him-feel-better-and-bring-life-to-his-eyes-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2026\/04\/09\/my-roommate-has-been-pretty-down-ever-since-he-has-gotten-over-his-situationship-how-can-i-make-him-feel-better-and-bring-life-to-his-eyes-again\/","title":{"rendered":"My roommate has been pretty down ever since he has “gotten over” his situationship. How can I make him feel better and bring life to his eyes again."},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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My roommate has been pretty down ever since he has “gotten over” his situationship. How can I make him feel better and bring life to his eyes again. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Chances are good you know some things he enjoys by now. Offer them but don’t worry too much if he’s not up for it right now, that will return. A situationship is a relationship pretending not to be, but losing one is still a form of grief, and everybody handles that at their own speed. Be a friend, give him space if he wants it, that is the best way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Roommate here. Can confirm I’m free. “I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes I saw the sign”<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I’m honored to have served as a neutral go-between.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Chances are good you know some things he enjoys by now. Offer them but don’t worry too much if he’s not up for it right now, that will return. A situationship is a relationship pretending not to be, but losing one is still a form of grief, and everybody handles that at their own speed. … <\/p>\n

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