{"id":2861,"date":"2018-06-07T09:13:27","date_gmt":"2018-06-07T13:13:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/answerwall.domain.bc.edu\/?p=2861"},"modified":"2018-06-07T16:21:17","modified_gmt":"2018-06-07T20:21:17","slug":"is-it-harder-to-stay-or-leave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/06\/07\/is-it-harder-to-stay-or-leave\/","title":{"rendered":"Is it harder to STAY or LEAVE? :("},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_2859\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2859\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/aw060718-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2859\" src=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/aw060718-1-300x285.jpg\" alt=\"Is it harder to STAY or LEAVE? :(\" width=\"300\" height=\"285\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/aw060718-1-300x285.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/aw060718-1.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2859\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Is it harder to STAY or LEAVE? \ud83d\ude41<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Sigh&#8230; I&#8217;m sad that you&#8217;re in a situation where going and staying both seem hard. But know that you aren&#8217;t alone in this predicament; it&#8217;s something everyone has to face at some point, one way or another. As Joe Strummer of the Clash so succinctly put it, &#8220;Should I stay or should I go now?\/ If I go, there will be trouble\/ And if I stay it will be double.&#8221; Whatever you do, don&#8217;t be hasty, and talk it through with a lot of people. Sometimes growth means persisting, and sometimes growth requires a change. If you don&#8217;t have anyone to talk to, try Counseling Services (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BC-counseling\">bit.ly\/BC-counseling<\/a>) or Academic Advising (<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BC-advising\">bit.ly\/BC-advising<\/a>), depending on the nature of the decision you&#8217;re facing. And if you need to vent, especially if the conundrum is romantic, I recommend the Clash on volume 11: <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/clash-should-I\">bit.ly\/clash-should-I<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sigh&#8230; I&#8217;m sad that you&#8217;re in a situation where going and staying both seem hard. But know that you aren&#8217;t alone in this predicament; it&#8217;s something everyone has to face at some point, one way or another. As Joe Strummer of the Clash so succinctly put it, &#8220;Should I stay or should I go now?\/ &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/06\/07\/is-it-harder-to-stay-or-leave\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Is it harder to STAY or LEAVE? :(&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2861","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health-wellness"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2861","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2861"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2861\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2866,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2861\/revisions\/2866"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2861"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2861"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2861"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}