{"id":27978,"date":"2025-03-23T22:47:24","date_gmt":"2025-03-24T02:47:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=27978"},"modified":"2025-03-25T16:12:27","modified_gmt":"2025-03-25T20:12:27","slug":"someone-i-dont-rlly-get-along-with-is-rlly-trying-to-improve-repair-our-relationship-bc-itd-benefit-them-should-i-forgive-and-forget-or-keep-being-petty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2025\/03\/23\/someone-i-dont-rlly-get-along-with-is-rlly-trying-to-improve-repair-our-relationship-bc-itd-benefit-them-should-i-forgive-and-forget-or-keep-being-petty\/","title":{"rendered":"Someone I don&#8217;t rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve\/repair our relationship bc it&#8217;d benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/aw6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"400\" height=\"389\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/aw6.jpg\" alt=\"Someone I don't rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve\/repair our relationship bc it'd benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?\" class=\"wp-image-27977\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/aw6.jpg 400w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/aw6-300x292.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Someone I don&#8217;t rlly get along with is rlly trying to improve\/repair our relationship bc it&#8217;d benefit them. Should I forgive and forget? Or keep being petty?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Holding onto the pettiness and repairing the relationship are both optional. Maybe think about what the current situation is doing for you, that might make it clearer what to prioritize.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Holding onto the pettiness and repairing the relationship are both optional. Maybe think about what the current situation is doing for you, that might make it clearer what to prioritize.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27978","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27978","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27978"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27978\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28004,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27978\/revisions\/28004"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27978"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27978"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27978"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}