{"id":27165,"date":"2024-11-13T19:10:43","date_gmt":"2024-11-14T00:10:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=27165"},"modified":"2024-11-13T19:10:43","modified_gmt":"2024-11-14T00:10:43","slug":"my-partner-is-avoidant-when-we-fight-i-tried-to-communicate-with-him-multiple-times-but-it-never-worked-he-did-do-a-lot-for-me-in-daily-life-but-when-we-fight-he-always-leaves-and-never-comforts-c","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2024\/11\/13\/my-partner-is-avoidant-when-we-fight-i-tried-to-communicate-with-him-multiple-times-but-it-never-worked-he-did-do-a-lot-for-me-in-daily-life-but-when-we-fight-he-always-leaves-and-never-comforts-c\/","title":{"rendered":"My partner is avoidant when we fight. I tried to communicate with him multiple times but it never worked. He did do a lot for me in daily life, but when we fight, he always leaves and never comforts\/confronts me. Should I leave?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/AW110624-3-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/AW110624-3-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-27118\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/AW110624-3-1.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/AW110624-3-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/AW110624-3-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/AW110624-3-1-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">My partner is avoidant when we fight. I tried to communicate with him multiple times but it never worked. He did do a lot for me in daily life, but when we fight, he always leaves and never comforts\/confronts me. Should I leave?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m sorry to hear you have some relationship struggles. Communication struggles are not impossible to overcome but do require patience. It&#8217;s hard to give relationship advice from my position as a wall, so I highly recommend talking to someone, perhaps in Counseling Services: bit.ly\/BC-counseling<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sorry to hear you have some relationship struggles. Communication struggles are not impossible to overcome but do require patience. It&#8217;s hard to give relationship advice from my position as a wall, so I highly recommend talking to someone, perhaps in Counseling Services: bit.ly\/BC-counseling<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27165"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27165\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27166,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27165\/revisions\/27166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}