{"id":2574,"date":"2018-05-07T19:37:00","date_gmt":"2018-05-07T23:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/answerwall.domain.bc.edu\/?p=2574"},"modified":"2018-05-08T15:24:26","modified_gmt":"2018-05-08T19:24:26","slug":"how-can-i-ask-a-cute-guy-in-one-of-my-classes-if-hes-into-fisting-without-coming-across-as-too-forward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/05\/07\/how-can-i-ask-a-cute-guy-in-one-of-my-classes-if-hes-into-fisting-without-coming-across-as-too-forward\/","title":{"rendered":"How can I ask a cute guy in one of my classes if he&#8217;s into fisting without coming across  as too forward?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_2571\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2571\" style=\"width: 298px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/050718-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2571\" src=\"http:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/050718-1-298x300.jpg\" alt=\"How can I ask a cute guy in one of my classes if he's into fisting without coming across as too forward?\" width=\"298\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/050718-1-298x300.jpg 298w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/050718-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/050718-1-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/050718-1.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 298px) 100vw, 298px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2571\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">How can I ask a cute guy in one of my classes if he&#8217;s into fisting without coming across as too forward?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think there is a reserved way to ask a stranger if they&#8217;re into fisting. You could (and probably should) get to know him VERY well before you ask him. Alternatively, you could start with a conversation about more typical sexual interests and then see where his limits are. Whatever approach you take, please respect any indication that he is uncomfortable with the conversation and stop before you cross a line.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t think there is a reserved way to ask a stranger if they&#8217;re into fisting. You could (and probably should) get to know him VERY well before you ask him. Alternatively, you could start with a conversation about more typical sexual interests and then see where his limits are. Whatever approach you take, please &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2018\/05\/07\/how-can-i-ask-a-cute-guy-in-one-of-my-classes-if-hes-into-fisting-without-coming-across-as-too-forward\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How can I ask a cute guy in one of my classes if he&#8217;s into fisting without coming across  as too forward?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2574","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships","category-sexuality"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2574","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2574"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2574\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2581,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2574\/revisions\/2581"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2574"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2574"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2574"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}