{"id":24838,"date":"2024-01-16T20:03:24","date_gmt":"2024-01-17T01:03:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=24838"},"modified":"2024-01-17T19:45:26","modified_gmt":"2024-01-18T00:45:26","slug":"my-gf-cheated-on-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2024\/01\/16\/my-gf-cheated-on-me\/","title":{"rendered":"My GF cheated on me."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/AW01162024-1-rotated.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"480\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/AW01162024-1-rotated.jpg\" alt=\"My GF cheated on me. She seems remorseful. I forgive her, but I'm not sure I could ever fully trust her again. Should I give her another chance?\" class=\"wp-image-24837\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/AW01162024-1-rotated.jpg 480w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/AW01162024-1-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">My GF cheated on me. She seems remorseful. I forgive her, but I&#8217;m not sure I could ever fully trust her again. Should I give her another chance? <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m in general in favor of second chances, but in this case it&#8217;s much more complicated. You have your finger on the issue, trust. You can&#8217;t have a lasting relationship without it. Our collection is a little more oriented toward helping future therapists learn how to help couples with this, but it might help you to look at a few things from this list at Boston Public Library: <a href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/bc-infidelity.\">https:\/\/bit.ly\/bc-infidelity.<\/a> Because you&#8217;re at BC you&#8217;re eligible for a library card there, but you can also use our interlibrary loan service to request copies of what you want. My condolences, that is the hardest thing. And good luck to you as well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m in general in favor of second chances, but in this case it&#8217;s much more complicated. You have your finger on the issue, trust. You can&#8217;t have a lasting relationship without it. Our collection is a little more oriented toward helping future therapists learn how to help couples with this, but it might help you &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2024\/01\/16\/my-gf-cheated-on-me\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;My GF cheated on me.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24838","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24838","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24838"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24838\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24845,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24838\/revisions\/24845"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24838"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24838"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24838"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}