{"id":24742,"date":"2023-12-18T09:16:37","date_gmt":"2023-12-18T14:16:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=24742"},"modified":"2023-12-19T08:30:38","modified_gmt":"2023-12-19T13:30:38","slug":"how-do-you-know-you-found-the-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/12\/18\/how-do-you-know-you-found-the-one\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you know you found &#8220;the one&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/aw12182023-03.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"306\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/aw12182023-03.jpg\" alt=\"How do you know you found &quot;the one&quot;?\" class=\"wp-image-24735\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/aw12182023-03.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/aw12182023-03-300x287.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">How do you know you found &#8220;the one&#8221;?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ll repeat wisdom I&#8217;ve repeated before: When you try to imagine going through life without their good qualities, you think, &#8220;No way, can&#8217;t live without them,&#8221; and when you imagine a lifetime living with their bad qualities you say, &#8220;Yeah, I can put up with those.&#8221; Then you&#8217;re ready to spend a lifetime with them. If you think they don&#8217;t have bad qualities, you haven&#8217;t been together long enough for this decision. If you think you can change their bad qualities, you aren&#8217;t ready for a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ll repeat wisdom I&#8217;ve repeated before: When you try to imagine going through life without their good qualities, you think, &#8220;No way, can&#8217;t live without them,&#8221; and when you imagine a lifetime living with their bad qualities you say, &#8220;Yeah, I can put up with those.&#8221; Then you&#8217;re ready to spend a lifetime with them. &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/12\/18\/how-do-you-know-you-found-the-one\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How do you know you found &#8220;the one&#8221;?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24742","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24742"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24742\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24766,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24742\/revisions\/24766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24742"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24742"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24742"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}