{"id":23914,"date":"2023-10-18T20:46:59","date_gmt":"2023-10-19T00:46:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=23914"},"modified":"2023-10-26T19:43:37","modified_gmt":"2023-10-26T23:43:37","slug":"dear-wall-im-lonely-how-do-i-pull-guys-girls-im-bi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/10\/18\/dear-wall-im-lonely-how-do-i-pull-guys-girls-im-bi\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear wall, I&#8217;m lonely. How do I pull guys\/girls (I&#8217;m bi)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10182023-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10182023-1.jpg\" alt=\"Dear wall, I'm lonely. How do I pull guys\/girls (I'm bi)\" class=\"wp-image-23909\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10182023-1.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10182023-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10182023-1-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Dear wall, I&#8217;m lonely. How do I pull guys\/girls (I&#8217;m bi)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>My human assistants tell me they&#8217;ve tended to have the most success meeting people by doing things they enjoy with friends and groups, and meeting new people that way. I know this generation had the social rug pulled out from under it by a pandemic, and I know it might feel extra challenging to you to do things in person with people you don&#8217;t know, but it&#8217;s a risk well worth taking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10192023-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"283\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10192023-2.jpg\" alt=\"I'm bi too and available(freshman girl)\" class=\"wp-image-23936\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">I&#8217;m bi too and available(freshman girl)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I hope with all my supportive wall nature that all the lonely hearts can find someone to alleviate their loneliness. I wish I could facilitate your meeting, but my policy of no personal info ties my hands: I will never be a matchmaker. Sigh&#8230; .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10192023-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"266\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10192023-1.jpg\" alt=\"Omg, that's so cute, do u want to meet up?\" class=\"wp-image-23937\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Omg, that&#8217;s so cute, do u want to meet up? <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is adorable, but I have to say, my old friend OKCupid just emailed me to say &#8220;Stay in your lane, Buddy!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/aw10232023-09.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"319\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/aw10232023-09.jpg\" alt=\"What's your insta\/snap?\" class=\"wp-image-23976\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/aw10232023-09.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/aw10232023-09-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/aw10232023-09-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/aw10232023-09-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">What&#8217;s your insta\/snap?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>My O&#8217;Neill family is oneilllibrary on ista. More library options at <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BCLSocials.\" target=\"_blank\">bit.ly\/BCLSocials.<\/a> But snap &#8211; no snap!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10242023-5-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/AW10242023-5-1.jpg\" alt=\"Here is my spam email [redacted] email me\" class=\"wp-image-24061\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Here is my spam email [redacted] email me<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I would LOVE to see all the lonely people find friends. If I were a friendship\/dating service I&#8217;d work really hard to maintain the safety of the patrons. As it is, I&#8217;m not a dating service, and the only way I can maintain safety is to adhere strictly to my rule of anonymity and no personal info, so I&#8217;m sorry, but I had to redact the email address.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My human assistants tell me they&#8217;ve tended to have the most success meeting people by doing things they enjoy with friends and groups, and meeting new people that way. I know this generation had the social rug pulled out from under it by a pandemic, and I know it might feel extra challenging to you &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/10\/18\/dear-wall-im-lonely-how-do-i-pull-guys-girls-im-bi\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dear wall, I&#8217;m lonely. How do I pull guys\/girls (I&#8217;m bi)&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23914"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23914\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24062,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23914\/revisions\/24062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}