{"id":23482,"date":"2023-09-11T08:31:39","date_gmt":"2023-09-11T12:31:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=23482"},"modified":"2023-09-12T18:03:38","modified_gmt":"2023-09-12T22:03:38","slug":"what-do-i-do-if-a-person-i-used-to-be-friends-with-and-has-ended-on-bad-terms-with-has-been-spreading-bad-rumors-about-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/09\/11\/what-do-i-do-if-a-person-i-used-to-be-friends-with-and-has-ended-on-bad-terms-with-has-been-spreading-bad-rumors-about-me\/","title":{"rendered":"What do i do if a person I used to be friends with and has ended on bad terms with has been spreading bad rumors about me?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/aw09112023-06.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"296\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/aw09112023-06.jpg\" alt=\"What do i do if a person I used to be friends with and has ended on bad terms with has been spreading bad rumors about me? I am rejected by everyone that used to be friends with me, and now everyone hates me... I know they they're not real friends... But it still hurst and I feel so lonely\" class=\"wp-image-23481\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/aw09112023-06.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/aw09112023-06-300x278.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">What do i do if a person I used to be friends with and has ended on bad terms with has been spreading bad rumors about me? I am rejected by everyone that used to be friends with me, and now everyone hates me&#8230; I know they they&#8217;re not real friends&#8230; But it still hurst and I feel so lonely<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I am so sorry you&#8217;re experiencing this! As you said, friends that do that are not real friends indeed. There are many friendly fish in the sea who will like and believe in the person you are today, and plenty of friendships still to be made. Focus on cultivating new friendships, and being kind to yourself during this time. However\u2013 for some literary distraction\/dramatic catharsis, the Count of Monte Cristo knows all about being churned through the rumor mill&#8230; bit.ly\/3ECvtC1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am so sorry you&#8217;re experiencing this! As you said, friends that do that are not real friends indeed. There are many friendly fish in the sea who will like and believe in the person you are today, and plenty of friendships still to be made. Focus on cultivating new friendships, and being kind to &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/09\/11\/what-do-i-do-if-a-person-i-used-to-be-friends-with-and-has-ended-on-bad-terms-with-has-been-spreading-bad-rumors-about-me\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;What do i do if a person I used to be friends with and has ended on bad terms with has been spreading bad rumors about me?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23482","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23482"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23482\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23526,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23482\/revisions\/23526"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}