{"id":21927,"date":"2023-03-02T20:04:40","date_gmt":"2023-03-03T01:04:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=21927"},"modified":"2023-03-06T20:09:19","modified_gmt":"2023-03-07T01:09:19","slug":"someone-takes-up-too-much-space-in-my-mind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/03\/02\/someone-takes-up-too-much-space-in-my-mind\/","title":{"rendered":"Someone takes up too much space in my mind"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Aw030223-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"301\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Aw030223-2.jpg\" alt=\"What do I do when someone takes up too much space in my mind (and I take up none in theirs).\" class=\"wp-image-21921\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Aw030223-2.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Aw030223-2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Aw030223-2-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">What do I do when someone takes up too much space in my mind (and I take up none in theirs).<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a real tough one. If this is truly debilitating, I recommend chatting with someone in Counseling Services &#8211; <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/BC-counseling.\" target=\"_blank\">bit.ly\/BC-counseling.<\/a> If it&#8217;s not at that level yet, fill your mind with other life experiences and build your community so there is just a bunch of other stuff for your mind to focus on. What events are happening on or off campus that you can go to? What new friendships can you cultivate? I wish you so much luck finding rich experiences and deep friendships!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a real tough one. If this is truly debilitating, I recommend chatting with someone in Counseling Services &#8211; bit.ly\/BC-counseling. If it&#8217;s not at that level yet, fill your mind with other life experiences and build your community so there is just a bunch of other stuff for your mind to focus on. What &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2023\/03\/02\/someone-takes-up-too-much-space-in-my-mind\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Someone takes up too much space in my mind&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21927","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21927","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21927"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21927\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21945,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21927\/revisions\/21945"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21927"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21927"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21927"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}