{"id":21335,"date":"2022-12-20T08:57:05","date_gmt":"2022-12-20T13:57:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=21335"},"modified":"2022-12-20T20:20:16","modified_gmt":"2022-12-21T01:20:16","slug":"im-having-such-an-emotionally-hard-time-i-think-my-long-term-bf-and-i-would-be-better-broken-up-but-it-would-break-my-%e2%9d%a4%ef%b8%8f-and-his-and-we-both-need-each-other-im-so-exhausted-thoug","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/12\/20\/im-having-such-an-emotionally-hard-time-i-think-my-long-term-bf-and-i-would-be-better-broken-up-but-it-would-break-my-%e2%9d%a4%ef%b8%8f-and-his-and-we-both-need-each-other-im-so-exhausted-thoug\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my \u2764\ufe0f and his and we both need each other. I&#8217;m so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but \u2026 ACK"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/aw12202022-01.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"182\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/aw12202022-01.jpg\" alt=\"I'm having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my \u2764\ufe0f and his and we both need each other. I'm so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but ... ACK\" class=\"wp-image-21334\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/aw12202022-01.jpg 182w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/aw12202022-01-171x300.jpg 171w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 182px) 100vw, 182px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">I&#8217;m having such an emotionally hard time. I think my long term bf and I would be better broken up but it would break my \u2764\ufe0f and his and we both need each other. I&#8217;m so exhausted though I know what the right thing would be but &#8230; ACK<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;d both benefit more from a break than a break-up? Spending some time apart may help you both get a clearer understanding of your own needs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you&#8217;d both benefit more from a break than a break-up? Spending some time apart may help you both get a clearer understanding of your own needs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21335","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21335","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21335"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21335\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21337,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21335\/revisions\/21337"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21335"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21335"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21335"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}