{"id":20879,"date":"2022-11-21T08:24:19","date_gmt":"2022-11-21T13:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=20879"},"modified":"2022-11-22T09:06:56","modified_gmt":"2022-11-22T14:06:56","slug":"i-got-completely-played-by-a-guy-but-we-have-so-m-any-mutual-friends-i-dont-want-things-to-be-awk-im-so-hurt-but-what-do-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/11\/21\/i-got-completely-played-by-a-guy-but-we-have-so-m-any-mutual-friends-i-dont-want-things-to-be-awk-im-so-hurt-but-what-do-i-do\/","title":{"rendered":"I got completely played by a guy &#8230;what do I do?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-07.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"309\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-07.jpg\" alt=\"I got completely played by a guy but we have so m any mutual friends I don't want things to be awk... I'm so hurt but what do I do?\" class=\"wp-image-20878\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-07.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-07-300x290.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">I got completely played by a guy but we have so m any mutual friends I don&#8217;t want things to be awk&#8230; I&#8217;m so hurt but what do I do?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Hugs. The Wall understands that this situation is uncomfortable. A good first step in moving forward is that you&#8217;re able to acknowledge to yourself that you are hurt, and the situation is awkward. For a short window you may need some distance from &#8220;the player&#8221; (both physical and virtual). The Wall is hopeful that with time you will be grateful that you learned, in a short window, that this person was not a long-termer for your energy and love. It&#8217;s all data collection for traits to look for (and to avoid) in future relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hugs. The Wall understands that this situation is uncomfortable. A good first step in moving forward is that you&#8217;re able to acknowledge to yourself that you are hurt, and the situation is awkward. For a short window you may need some distance from &#8220;the player&#8221; (both physical and virtual). The Wall is hopeful that with &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/11\/21\/i-got-completely-played-by-a-guy-but-we-have-so-m-any-mutual-friends-i-dont-want-things-to-be-awk-im-so-hurt-but-what-do-i-do\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I got completely played by a guy &#8230;what do I do?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20879","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20879","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20879"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20879\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20883,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20879\/revisions\/20883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20879"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20879"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20879"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}