{"id":20870,"date":"2022-11-21T08:21:32","date_gmt":"2022-11-21T13:21:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=20870"},"modified":"2022-11-22T09:08:45","modified_gmt":"2022-11-22T14:08:45","slug":"what-should-i-do-if-im-falling-for-someone-who-is-going-to-be-leaving-soon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/11\/21\/what-should-i-do-if-im-falling-for-someone-who-is-going-to-be-leaving-soon\/","title":{"rendered":"What should I do if I&#8217;m falling for someone who is going to be leaving soon?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-04.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"297\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-04.jpg\" alt=\"What should I do if I'm falling for someone who is going to be leaving soon?\" class=\"wp-image-20869\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-04.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11212022-04-300x278.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">What should I do if I&#8217;m falling for someone who is going to be leaving soon?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask yourself: would I rather live with a lifetime of regret for not telling them, or with the risks that might follow telling them? One of my assistants has more than a few years under their belt, and has very few regrets for doing things that turned out badly, but many for *not* doing things that seemed risky at the time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ask yourself: would I rather live with a lifetime of regret for not telling them, or with the risks that might follow telling them? One of my assistants has more than a few years under their belt, and has very few regrets for doing things that turned out badly, but many for *not* doing things &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/11\/21\/what-should-i-do-if-im-falling-for-someone-who-is-going-to-be-leaving-soon\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;What should I do if I&#8217;m falling for someone who is going to be leaving soon?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20870","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20870","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20870"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20870\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20886,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20870\/revisions\/20886"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20870"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20870"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20870"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}