{"id":20795,"date":"2022-11-14T08:15:22","date_gmt":"2022-11-14T13:15:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=20795"},"modified":"2022-11-14T20:26:43","modified_gmt":"2022-11-15T01:26:43","slug":"how-do-i-get-over-him","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/11\/14\/how-do-i-get-over-him\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I get over him?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11142022-08.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"312\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11142022-08.jpg\" alt=\"How do I get over him?\" class=\"wp-image-20794\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11142022-08.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/aw11142022-08-300x293.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>How do I get over him?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine yourself at 60, distracted for a moment from work or grandchildren by something that reminds you of that guy you were with briefly in your youth. For a few minutes you&#8217;re lost in a reverie, and then a grandchild&#8217;s laughter brings you back to your present joys. IOW, you have many joys in your future bigger yet than your present sadness, as all-encompassing as it feels now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imagine yourself at 60, distracted for a moment from work or grandchildren by something that reminds you of that guy you were with briefly in your youth. For a few minutes you&#8217;re lost in a reverie, and then a grandchild&#8217;s laughter brings you back to your present joys. IOW, you have many joys in your &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/11\/14\/how-do-i-get-over-him\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How do I get over him?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20795"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20795\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20797,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20795\/revisions\/20797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}