{"id":20674,"date":"2022-11-01T20:33:38","date_gmt":"2022-11-02T00:33:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=20674"},"modified":"2022-11-02T20:15:19","modified_gmt":"2022-11-03T00:15:19","slug":"conversations-with-people-about-behaviors-of-theirs-that-i-wish-would-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/11\/01\/conversations-with-people-about-behaviors-of-theirs-that-i-wish-would-change\/","title":{"rendered":"Conversations with people about behaviors of theirs that I wish would change."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/AW110122-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/AW110122-3.jpg\" alt=\"To what degree should I have conversations with people about behaviors of theirs that I wish would change....or just accept who they are?\" class=\"wp-image-20667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/AW110122-3.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/AW110122-3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/AW110122-3-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>To what degree should I have conversations with people about behaviors of theirs that I wish would change&#8230;.or just accept who they are?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It depends on the behavior and what kind of relationship you want to have with the person. But better to say something early than pretend you&#8217;re OK with something you&#8217;re not. It might be no big deal, or it might be, but you&#8217;ll only find out by saying something.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It depends on the behavior and what kind of relationship you want to have with the person. But better to say something early than pretend you&#8217;re OK with something you&#8217;re not. It might be no big deal, or it might be, but you&#8217;ll only find out by saying something.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20674","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20674"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20674\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20691,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20674\/revisions\/20691"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20674"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20674"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20674"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}