{"id":20620,"date":"2022-10-26T19:58:27","date_gmt":"2022-10-26T23:58:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=20620"},"modified":"2022-10-27T19:45:34","modified_gmt":"2022-10-27T23:45:34","slug":"how-do-you-tell-if-you-deserve-more-from-someone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/10\/26\/how-do-you-tell-if-you-deserve-more-from-someone\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you tell if you deserve more from someone?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/AW102622-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/AW102622-4.jpg\" alt=\"How do you tell if you deserve more from someone? An how do you communicate that?\" class=\"wp-image-20612\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/AW102622-4.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/AW102622-4-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/AW102622-4-100x100.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>How do you tell if you deserve more from someone? And how do you communicate that?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You can (and should!) voice your wants and needs. But be mindful of your words. (&#8220;Deserve&#8221; sounds ready for resentment.) Have a conversation about what you want and how not getting it makes you feel. Someone might not know what you want, or if they know, might not know how you feel about it, or if they know and aren&#8217;t providing, perhaps it makes them uncomfortable in some way. There are many possibilities, and you will both learn and grow by having a conversation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You can (and should!) voice your wants and needs. But be mindful of your words. (&#8220;Deserve&#8221; sounds ready for resentment.) Have a conversation about what you want and how not getting it makes you feel. Someone might not know what you want, or if they know, might not know how you feel about it, or &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/10\/26\/how-do-you-tell-if-you-deserve-more-from-someone\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How do you tell if you deserve more from someone?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20620"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20620\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20627,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20620\/revisions\/20627"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}