{"id":20507,"date":"2022-10-17T08:36:46","date_gmt":"2022-10-17T12:36:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=20507"},"modified":"2022-10-17T20:20:04","modified_gmt":"2022-10-18T00:20:04","slug":"hes-35-years-older-than-me-were-in-love-will-it-work-reply-no-sis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/10\/17\/hes-35-years-older-than-me-were-in-love-will-it-work-reply-no-sis\/","title":{"rendered":"He&#8217;s 35 years older than me &#8211; we&#8217;re in love &#8211; will it work? [reply] No sis!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aw10172022-04.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aw10172022-04.jpg\" alt=\"He's 35 years older than me - we're in love - will it work? [reply] No sis!\" class=\"wp-image-20506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aw10172022-04.jpg 320w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aw10172022-04-300x281.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>He&#8217;s 35 years older than me &#8211; we&#8217;re in love &#8211; will it work? [reply] No sis!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I agree with the commenter, that you should be cautious. With such a large age difference, you are subject to a lot of power dynamics that aren&#8217;t awesome and may not be as readily apparent to you as to him. Please tread carefully.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I agree with the commenter, that you should be cautious. With such a large age difference, you are subject to a lot of power dynamics that aren&#8217;t awesome and may not be as readily apparent to you as to him. Please tread carefully.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20507"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20507\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20521,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20507\/revisions\/20521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}