{"id":19336,"date":"2022-05-17T19:42:14","date_gmt":"2022-05-17T23:42:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=19336"},"modified":"2022-05-18T19:42:54","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T23:42:54","slug":"why-cant-i-just-forget-about-her-why-is-love-so-torturous","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/05\/17\/why-cant-i-just-forget-about-her-why-is-love-so-torturous\/","title":{"rendered":"Why can&#8217;t I just forget about her??? Why is love so torturous???"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/IMG_8027.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"629\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/IMG_8027.jpg\" alt=\"Why can't I just forget about her??? Why is love so torturous???\" class=\"wp-image-19333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/IMG_8027.jpg 640w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/IMG_8027-300x295.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Why can&#8217;t I just forget about her??? Why is love so torturous??? <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you love her or do you love an idealized version of her that fits the hole in your heart? Fill that hole in your heart with the love of friends and family, and come to terms with the fact that your idealized version of her is not reality. You&#8217;ve elevated her above being human. But she&#8217;s human, and has faults and struggles like all humans.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you love her or do you love an idealized version of her that fits the hole in your heart? Fill that hole in your heart with the love of friends and family, and come to terms with the fact that your idealized version of her is not reality. You&#8217;ve elevated her above being human. &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/05\/17\/why-cant-i-just-forget-about-her-why-is-love-so-torturous\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why can&#8217;t I just forget about her??? Why is love so torturous???&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19336","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19336","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19336"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19336\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19351,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19336\/revisions\/19351"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19336"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19336"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19336"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}