{"id":18065,"date":"2022-03-02T19:26:54","date_gmt":"2022-03-03T00:26:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=18065"},"modified":"2022-03-03T18:25:29","modified_gmt":"2022-03-03T23:25:29","slug":"hello-i-have-a-predicament","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/03\/02\/hello-i-have-a-predicament\/","title":{"rendered":"Hello! I have a predicament&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/AW03022022-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"444\" height=\"421\" src=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/AW03022022-3.jpg\" alt=\"Hello! I have a predicament... (let's call them A!) So recently there's this person I really like and have feelings for, but they are in a relationship. The thing is, A also likes me a lot as well, but they are hesitant on telling their partner (let's call them B!) that we like each other and have already done stuff with each other. Should I personally tell B? Do I tell A to tell B about us? I'm afraid to tell B, but at the same time, I feel very bad for B since they are being hurt even more as time goes on. Life is hard and complicated\" class=\"wp-image-18066\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/AW03022022-3.jpg 444w, https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/AW03022022-3-300x284.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 444px) 100vw, 444px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Hello! I have a predicament&#8230; (let&#8217;s call them A!) So recently there&#8217;s this person I really like and have feelings for, but they are in a relationship. The thing is, A also likes me a lot as well, but they are hesitant on telling their partner (let&#8217;s call them B!) that we like each other and have already done stuff with each other. Should I personally tell B? Do I tell A to tell B about us? I&#8217;m afraid to tell B, but at the same time, I feel very bad for B since they are being hurt even more as time goes on. Life is hard and complicated<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You should tell B because no one deserves to be treated the way you and A are treating them. Person A clearly needs to work on their maturity and their values before being in a committed relationship with anyone again. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone willing to cheat on and lie to their current partner?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You should tell B because no one deserves to be treated the way you and A are treating them. Person A clearly needs to work on their maturity and their values before being in a committed relationship with anyone again. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone willing to cheat on &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/03\/02\/hello-i-have-a-predicament\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Hello! I have a predicament&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18065","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18065","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18065"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18065\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18083,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18065\/revisions\/18083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18065"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18065"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18065"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}