{"id":17346,"date":"2022-01-18T20:03:30","date_gmt":"2022-01-19T01:03:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/?p=17346"},"modified":"2022-01-18T20:03:30","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T01:03:30","slug":"im-rly-into-this-dude-weve-been-on-2-awesome-dates-together-now-it-seems-like-hes-not-being-as-responsive-to-my-texts-and-im-prolly-gonna-find-out-tmr-if-he","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/01\/18\/im-rly-into-this-dude-weve-been-on-2-awesome-dates-together-now-it-seems-like-hes-not-being-as-responsive-to-my-texts-and-im-prolly-gonna-find-out-tmr-if-he\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m rly into this dude we\u2019ve been on 2 awesome dates together. Now it seems like he\u2019s not being as responsive to my texts and I\u2019m prolly gonna find out tmr if he\u2019s still interested in seeing me \u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">He got a leg injury last weekend so maybe that\u2019s also why he\u2019s being a lil \u2018distant\u2019? It\u2019s so easy to engage in black and white thinking when one\u2019s stressed\/depressed!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">kinda nervous but wish me luck!!! I love that you\u2019re a superspreader of positivity :))<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Good luck! You&#8217;re right, it&#8217;s much too easy to imagine the worst, even in the best of circumstances. Practice imagining the more likely (leg injury = preoccupied), practice compassion (the leg injury must be distressing to him) and as much as you can, let go of events over which you have no control.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He got a leg injury last weekend so maybe that\u2019s also why he\u2019s being a lil \u2018distant\u2019? It\u2019s so easy to engage in black and white thinking when one\u2019s stressed\/depressed! kinda nervous but wish me luck!!! I love that you\u2019re a superspreader of positivity :)) Good luck! You&#8217;re right, it&#8217;s much too easy to imagine &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/2022\/01\/18\/im-rly-into-this-dude-weve-been-on-2-awesome-dates-together-now-it-seems-like-hes-not-being-as-responsive-to-my-texts-and-im-prolly-gonna-find-out-tmr-if-he\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I\u2019m rly into this dude we\u2019ve been on 2 awesome dates together. Now it seems like he\u2019s not being as responsive to my texts and I\u2019m prolly gonna find out tmr if he\u2019s still interested in seeing me \u2026&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17346","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17346"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17346\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17349,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17346\/revisions\/17349"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17346"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17346"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.bc.edu\/answerwall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17346"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}